I was busy doing work last night so went to see my gf before she went out with her friends. I gave her a kiss and surprised her and she loved it. as soon as i left she text me saying, nice surprise etc...

she never text me when i text her in the early hours.

she later came down and told me she only kissed some other guy last night, she was upset, didnt try explaining herself or anything... didnt ask for my forgivness, just said i wud never be able to trust her again.

her flat mate later told me that some guy walked out of her room at 11am that morning... i asked her about it and she says he also walked her home, and slept on her floor :/

obs to me that she fucked him.

i just dont get why? it was all going so so well, and this guy is more athletic than me, shed only seen him twice before and didnt know him. none of her flat mates even know him and she only ever goes out with them

i just dont get why she did it... she said she regretted it and cant take it back, she didnt even defend herself, my theory is that she knows that i wud never sleep with her by my own free will if i knew.... and if i ever found out id go nuts.

just why?

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Girls don't cheat on alphas. The ones who don't give a fuck, got their life in order, and are good in bed.

Dump this broad, and work on yourself.

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Seize the day with love

Sometimes you succeed, and sometimes you learn.

Not True.
For ages people have tried to put science or theory behind this -but the truth is No one has figured it out completely !!

My guess is she probably young and may be in her teens. She yet doesn't understand the gravity of being in a committed relationship and the pain that cheating can cause to her partner. Controlling emotions/desires is HARD - No matter who you are, a happily married woman who has just met her fav celebrity or a Monk in Himalayas. But with time and age some people get better at this than most, its still tough.

I would trust her word over her friends. And its upto you to decide what you want to do.

If I were you I'd tell her that I liked her but I can't trust a girl who would suck faces behind my back. And she should always remember that she is the one who cheated on me and led us to break off. I'd break off with her.

And then go date her good friends

Btw.. I would have break off sex with her first and then tell her this and walk out

Magic are you sure you even had a girlfriend? Looking back at your older post the questions you ask they all seem very short bus like.

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@ Magic - If thts ^ true then comeon man dont waste our time.

women DO cheat on alphas.

women cheat...period.

hell, men cheat...period.

basically, people are shameless sex monkeys

i rest my case

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How long have you guys been dating?
You mention she's only met this guy twice or something, part of the reason why she might have was cuz if you guys have been together for awhile things may have gotten a bit complacent, and this guy was still mysterious and new to her, either way she sounds like she might be fairly young if se pulls that

How long have you guys been dating?
You mention she's only met this guy twice or something, part of the reason why she might have was cuz if you guys have been together for awhile things may have gotten a bit complacent, and this guy was still mysterious and new to her, either way she sounds like she might be fairly young if se pulls that

you such a fucking BETA

learn2b alpha brah.

get some chest hair and a dick. sound like a pussy.

if my gf was going out i wouldnt go to her place and give her a kiss on the cheek. id bend her over and cum in her ass and then mouth fuck her till she cried before she went out partying with her slut friends.

l2alpha.

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weve been dating for 4 months. proper going out for about 2, shes met the family etc...

she came round last night, and said that she was just out, and this guy was flirting with her and that he just kissed her... then they kissed again, then she felt ill, walked home and he walked her home. He then asked to use her toilet (sigh) and they talked for a bit, then he said, i live the other side of town, can i just sleep on your floor. She swore down on her mums life that he never slept in the bed, and nothing happened.

Yesterday when she told me she knew i would want nothing else to do with her after this, so she was kinda trying to end it, or had a barrier up agaist me giving her a second chance, and i wasnt willing to.

last night at 3 am though, she came down and we talked about it. And she was saying how she feels the worst shes ever felt, and how she would never cheat again etc.. and then she said, if you were to give me a second chance it would never happen again, i feel as tho iv ruined something so perfect in the spare of the moment, and dont even know why i did it...

shes genuinly a nice girl, all her flat mates are mad at her for doing this as they like me,

on the bright side... she told me
she didnt know this guy, she had just met him through a friend a couple of times before and nothing had ever happened.
3. she told him to stop and that she had a bf, and he said, im sorry and stopped.

she had nothing to lose last night, so i kinda do believe her that thats all that happens, and shes 18, im 22, so yeah she is young, and i was thinking, i have a friend (female) who did this once, and she would never do it again. so maybe?

what are your opinions? my morals say end it, but then again, shes young, first time away from home, and she made a mistake which meant nothing.

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Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Browse this forum and tell me how many threads there are like "She has a boyfriend, but she keeps flirting with me, how do i close with her?"

As men, we try to get what we want. We don't care about other guys we don't know. If she's hot, we want her, right? (Can't hate the player; hate the game)

Some women "think" they want a relationship because for them a relationship is top prize. It makes them more confident, It makes them seem grounded and not slutty, and they have a man to call their own who's generally there when they need him for support. Truth is, most women are just as sex hungry as men, they just don't show it because it would be bad social practice and a total reputation killer. They want guys who work for them, but also they want to work for guys!

I think you got yourself a girl that just isn't mature or ready enough to handle a relationship. Better let it go now or risk more future heartbreak.

- Stylite

I sound like such a dick for saying this, but...

I'm thinking im young, just want some fun, and if some girl cheats on me then it's not to be. I ave a good time with her and see that she likes me, however, she does seem really sorry, maybe give it another go? and just not get masssivly emotionally attached. Like be exclusive, but not going out out, and see if she does mature over the next year from it?
I text her earlier saying:
Everytime i think of you kissing some guy when your with me makes me feel physically sick, it makes me think your nothing but a cheap and dirty slut. I can forget about what happened if it meant nothing, however i will never forgive it. If you want a second chance then you are going to have to try really hard as I am not going to go out of my way for you any more. Have a good week end....

It's wierd because in the passed when iv broke up wit a girl i have been devistated. I was really nice to this girl, and she did take the piss. However, its obvious she feels so shit for it. It's just amazing everything you hear about, like, dont go back. But it may be worth giving her a second chance, i know people who have cheated and never even thought of doing it again. Maybe she will, maybe she wont, but iv ad a barrier up and it didnt come as a shock to me, maybe now i know she wont fuck me over again. its a hard one.

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I know it's hard man, I feel for you; but trust me, she WILL hurt you again.

Think about it, it's only been, what, 2 months into the relationship and she ALREADY cheated? That's her true character coming through. I've seen my friends go through this themselves and they always kid themselves with the "Oh but she's really sorry, she feels bad I'll just take her back..." mentality, and guess what happens.

Honestly, I'd say end it, move on, and maybe in a few years when she grows up and REALLY realizes what she did, you could take her back (assuming she's still in your life and you aren't dating a supermodel by then.)

She's 18 bro. I'm 22 too and I know how 18 year old girls are. Do you really think she's out of her "party girl" mentality and wants to settle down ALREADY? Think about you at 18. It's not much different for girls in real life. Teach her a lesson for her future relationships and end it. Otherwise you're just contributing to the "I can get away with it" mentality she has right now.

- Stylite

She cheated on you bro, she's just not that into you. I've cheated once cause I was completely over the girl I was with at the time. I have a new gf now and would never cheat on her, I'm not even tempted because I am into her and I respect her. Your girl doesn't respect you or care enough for you and if you take her back you're just showing her that she can walk all over you and the relationship will only get worse. Ask yourself, do you really want to spend time on a girl who has cheated on you? Especially this early in the relationship! Her cheating on you is just proving to you she's not worth your time, she's not good enough for you, she's just another common whore. So don't be a pussy, dump her ass and go find another girl who is decent, respects you and is into you.

Of course she feels bad, she's just ruined her reputation and shown people she's a dirty whore.

It's not going to be easy, personally I hate break ups more than anything but in the long run it's for the best, besides its only been 2 months so it's not like you guys were that serious so it shouldn't be too hard to walk away. Just think getting rid of this bad egg will get you closer to meeting the girl you are meant to be with. Please don't continue with her, you will be making a mistake, I've had mates who have made this mistake and the girl completely owns their soul and balls after they take the woman back after something like this.

I am sorry to hear about this man, no one deserves to be cheated on. Best thing to do now for you is forget about her and move on, Enjoy your life and live it to the max she will see this and regret doing this to you. Women can be cruel at times but the best way to get her back is just to fuck her off and like I said live your life. As for p1ckuppr0 your advice of what ever you call that shit comment is a joke, I've seen several comments you've gave now and it's absolute nonsense if you have no good advice why the fuck comment your a tit of a person.

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