...to people you've known for several years already?

I'm changing the covers and I want to give them someone new to look at. Any advice on strangers or whatnot can help too

hmm just use strange stories or her ya go
http://www.snapple.com/index.asp?Pageid=3

Change yourself from the inside out. AND/Or get new hobbies to talk about. Be excited over something, experience something new an different. If you dont feel comfortable about sharing the things you like or the stories you have then that just goes back to my first point of working at your innerself.

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haha, thx. i've been doin that lately. any specifics for say.. a highschooler?

I've been in the mix between the social and anti-social guy. They see me as the cool guy but they think I think im too cool to talk to them.

but thats not the worst part. the worst part is trying to follow their conversations and taking over as the AMOG. I dont know what the hell their talking about soemtimes! I do, but i'm by far a lil late when it comes to certain things.

Join a club or sport. Sport is good cause you'll get in good shape & girls love athletes. Good for your health and high school social value.
Just dont be a an arrogant jock asshole.

If your circle thinks your "too cool to talk to them." Chances are you are. If you give an honest effort to socialize with them too and they get butt hurt because you talk to other groups, then they should get off their ass and step outside their circle.
Not really sure what you mean by this...Example?

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sorry bout the typos, im typing in the dark right now.

I don't know exactly what AMOG is, but I consider an AMOG as someone who has the center of attention. Correct me if I'm wrong, I want to be able to use these terms in the right context.

suppose, i get into a group to say whats up and all, and I was able to be the center of attraction for the group. "both guys and girls are in there" At least for a bit. Then, this other guy, who's the talkative kind of person was able to capture everyones attention because he always has soemthing to talk about, or something funny you know.

I wont cut down on him, cuz he's cool. hes a friend of mine. Afterwards, he's "the guy" that everyone wants to have a conversation. It's nto a war or anything, i just dont know how I can be the guy that these people want to talk to.

Hell, I need some a lot of clarification on a few things. Like what an AMOG is exactly and how someone can be one. But there's my example.

maybe try to split up the group. try it when you think you have the group centered around you. don't let the other guy take hold of the group again and dont bring him with you when you split it.

As for the AMOG click the link.

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Like I said it all comes from your inner game. More like your inner self. If you feel you are not alpha enough, or if you dont think youre interesting enough then I seriously think its an inner game issue.

You may split the the group and all that, which is a nice strategy but it wont do anygood if you dont have the inner game to pull any routine or strategy.



Like I said build some self confidence. Go out join clubs take trips & experience life. =gives you stuff to talk about.

Join a sport / activity where you may be in a leadership role. Or observe a leader/ alpha type. Get into something where you'll have to discipline yourself, like a martial art. = more self confidence, leadership/ discipline qualities.

Check out stand up comedy. Observe the body language, tone and delivery of comedians. Plus it gets you out of the house!
=Humor, Bodylanguage / tone & delivery.

Get a part time job at the mall. Be in customer service. Get paid to interact w/ people! = People interaction. You can practice opening & running sets, it would be your job. Smile it helps people interaction!

Make friends w/ a gay guy. Alot of gays are into fashion and such. You can learn alot about putting together nice clothes & they'll give a different angle on social interaction.
=Develop fashion sense, Grooming tips, and insight on females from a true disqualifier.

Plus theres more but all in all these are some examples that can help you become more "Alpha." Some of these examples will not only help you become more alpha but it'll help your game!

*Qualities of Alpha Male Of Group.
Social Proof-given when you become closer w/ some of the higher valued guys. EX/ Becoming friends w/ Jocks (thru joining the team/ sport). Or through joining clubs or activities you'll interact w/ the more "popular."

Confidence-This will naturally develop w/ the right environment & with the right people. Again going back to joining a martial art or sport (just to name a few).

Smile- Be happy that you're alive! Get a job in cust service you'll learn how to sell a smile among other things.

Humor- Comedians, funny people in general, watch and observe. You dont have to be funny per say. Just be more playful! Dont take yourself too seriously!

Well Groomed- Like I said if you have no fasion sense make friends w/ a gay guy, and/or a girl. Fashion tips will come. Cause it takes more than just a bath nowadays.

Connection- In all the examples you are gonna interact. You will build rapport w/ people! Become connected to people outside your circle! As far as sarging goes...Building a connection w/ a female will be easier w/ the other attributes in hand. Your confidence will push you. Youre smile will project you. Youre humor will make you enjoyable. You being well groomed will raise your buying temp. Your friends will be the social proof will add to your value!


Once you feel more alpha you can then take control of sets. Be more interesting. Out Alpha another guy w/o even trying or even w/o being rude to him.
You can then split and run sets like mentioned above.

Well thats my 2 cents.
Hope that makes sense, I just started typing away. If you or anyone has anymore questions feel free to PM me.

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Hey sry 4 a late reply, but i just noticed it, i hope u get to read it..

Well I'm in high school right now, and i think i got a good formula on how 2 be the center of atention among friends and people u know, but i only do it when i want 2 social proof in front of a girl, among others i dont rly bother ;p

The formula is :
1)be leading with the topics, that means u get things going 1st and
2)always try and turn the subject into something u know, example -lets say you know alot about cars and computers, and your friend starts talking bout a celebrety's or something, just say something like :" Ye man, and OMG WHAT CAR HE DRIVES!!! Its insane [crap bout cars]" then when your out of stuff 2 say, swich of to the next subject:" Ye i heard they are going to install some crazy ass computer thingy in the new S line[what ever, at this point u can actually lie ]