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PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 3:14 pm 
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Hi,

Just wondering, when you still see your exes regularly (in gym etc.), what is the best way to act?

Ignore them/Say Hi but don't chat/Chat as normal?

Cheers

Zanny

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 4:54 pm 
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Depends howlong the break up have been, how did it happen ect..

To be honest I never see any of my ex'es.
For several reasons..
I believe you can fall in love again (or 1 party wants to try it again) ...
It might hurt..

If you however will see her regularly in public places don't treat her any different from others.. Might have a quick word but stop after that.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2012 5:27 pm 
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I agree Thedutchone, it would be best if I didn't have to see them again. However, I can't always block them out of my life. That would mean me having to stop doing classes that I actually want to do.

Yeah.. I reckon just treating them politely but not over friendly would be best... I mean, why should I do all the things she likes when we're not together anymore!

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 4:12 am 
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this is how i deal with exes

Image

and before you get pissed or think i am trolling, lol

NO, I AM SERIOUS>>>

it's a metaphor!

of course, i don't use a REAL chainsaw

but i take a figurative one to the relationship real good!

like Leatherface

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 11:38 am 
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Hehe. Return of the Mack.

Isn't it a good rule to be unaffected by things though, i.e. appearing as nothing has happened that you can't handle?

Or am I misunderstanding what you're saying. Do you mean cut them off completely?

Zan

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Hehe. Return of the Mack.

Isn't it a good rule to be unaffected by things though, i.e. appearing as nothing has happened that you can't handle?

Or am I misunderstanding what you're saying. Do you mean cut them off completely?

Zan
i mean cut all ties.

and cut the bullshit.

and cut the niceness.

when it's over (especially if a bad ending),

i tell them exactly what i think.

"gaming" has it's place,

but it sure feels nice to COME STRAIGHT OUT

and tell some bitch what she put you through.

it's not always about being the alpha male.

sometimes it's about regaining your self-respect

and telling people to "fuck off" that need to be told it.

hence, the chainsaw!

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 2:57 pm 
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I'm the opposite of Mack.. I'm friends with all my Ex's (even the ones I had when I was still monogamous). It can be a little weird sometimes.. like when I'm in a decent sized gathering of my friends and realize I've fucked every girl in the room. It's kind of surreal (and a major ego-trip).

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