Fucking hate it! No sense of rhythm, I suck.

HB shall we dance?

reply? need something to say no without offense but leads to doing something else, stalling with drinks makes it worse. Not as bad as showing her the funky dispraxic chicken but...

Thought about taking a class?

Good way to meet chicks too.

You may not end up ready for dancing with the stars, but you'll be better than 90% of the blokes out there.

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i'm a 21 british white male, in the uk its only 65 year old businessman and 55 year old post office workers who go.

i also have NO sense of rhythm.

A line will do me fine

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I was thinking of making the same thread. I would actually consider taking classes myself. Because dancing is something that I really dislike doing, but if your good at it it makes such a big difference. and it would be a good challenge and would build the confidence.

I hate when I feel like a tool on the dance floor when trying to move up to girls...it's such a mood dampner. But I guess they appreciate the effort no matter how bad you are

Thing is, I enjoy dancing when I'm in my room listening to my own music and there's no one around. But when I'm in a club I usually dont like the music that much and find it hard to get in the mood. But I guess for guys dancing is just like trying to learn any other monotonous skill...it serves a purpose and if you are concerned enough about reaching that purpose, you should learn the skill.

A sub-topic of this thread should address those situations when you really don't feel like dancing but the girl does. What is best to do? Hang around the bar and make idle chit chat with other girls? Wait patiently on the sideline and greet her when she's done having fun? (My instinct says no to this one). Make your excuses with some other objective that means your not available to dance (ie, go and say hi to a 'friend' you've been meaning to say hi to all night)?

If she tells you, she wants to dance with you, and you don't want to, make her wait, say "when I feel like it".
If she wants to dance with you now, and you want to dance with her, tell her when you feel like it. Don't give in like the rest of the guys, your the one calling the shots.

That being said, I personally never thought I could go out and dance, I always sat in the corner drinking like the AFC I am. But I went out with some of my friends one night and was looking at them, I realized theres not that much to dancing (Clubbing at least, I never ball room danced before), So I went out on the floor and start moving, no one stared at me making rude comments.

The thing I like about dancing is, its so easy, you really cant go wrong or look stupid, like anything given enough confidence and the proper attitude you can pull off even the stupidest of dance moves. Remember your there to have fun.

Most guys don't like dancing or aren't good at it, all you need to do is make the effort, and from what I observed the girl will lead! So if your worried about not knowing how to dance, just follow.

I think if you could dance, that would be a good DHV, if I had more time and wasn't so lazy I would take lessons.

Well Personaly I dance and have noticed that If you can't or won't most women it will turn them off very fast. becasue they see a good dancer as a good love maker ,and fun to be with. trust me learn to dance. I swear to you just last weekend I got laid in maryland at looneys just because I could dance good I had to kick very little game at all. It does help that I use to help teach choreography tho.
But if its a line you want .Then It's a line I'll give you!!
Tell her you would but your about to step outside, Then say excitedly" come with me quick I want to show you something" Then when she comes with you say "just kidding but I wanted to talk to you and it was to loud to hear you". then kick your game. I say it's a 50 50 chance most women want to dance though. and might ask you again no matter your line.

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