Everybody is welcomed to contribute.

Credit goes to Wolfwoodd for these

- History of drug abuse and or alcoholism
- history of poor decision making (like a long line of douche bag ex-boyfriends)
- seems to be in a constant state of crisis
- history of depression or has a mother who’s mentally ill
- works/worked as a stripper
- She doesn't give blowjobs
- history of past sexual abuse
- thinks masturbation is gross (opinions may vary on this one)
- Assumes you will pay for everything.


These are my own

- One relationship after the other. This is the type of woman who can't be single for more than a month.
- 30+ years old and hasn't been married.
- Her body issues exceed normal limits. If she can't eat a meal without calculating calories, etc.
- She didn't ask you to wear a condom when you first had sex. Make sure she's tested for STD's... all of them. If she didn't ask you to wear a condom, she didn't ask the 50 guys who fucked her before you.
- She carries condoms in her purse
- History of eating disorder (anorexia/bulimia).
- Has had more than one abortion in the past
- All of her friends are male/no female friends/no friends at all
- She's religious or her parents are VERY religious
- She lost her virginity at a VERY young age
- She was fucked up the ass before she had vaginal intercourse
- Constantly checks her phone when she's with you
- Can't cook. "Do you cook?" "Why, yes, I love to bake!"
- She carries hand sanitizer in her purse. OCD
- She cheated on her ex-bf with you. She'll do the same to you. Guaranteed.
- Bad relationship with her parents, specially her father
- She is obsessed with her pet
- She is completely financially reliant on her parents. Soon, she'll be CFR on you
- NEVER displays PDA towards you

Excellent and funny

Except the hand sanitizer, lol

I use it, keep it, and think its great when a girl does. Hygiene.

As king as she doesn't use it every twenty seconds.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Don't forget:

- No hobbies or pleasureful activities outside the relationship

Big one for me is if she has an STD.

-Flirt with other guys right in front of you.
-Is always picking up figthts for the most stupid things.
-Is excessive jealous about other girls.
-Talks about exs all the time.


The STD thing i dont agree. For example Ive met this girl she was really good girl. Had one boyfriend for three years, but this guy went to barcelona to have fun, and forgot to fuck with condom. So when he fucked the poor girl he pass the STD. And it wasnt her fault.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Those 2 are MASSIVE turnoffs. Richard's mom would always talk vitriol about her co-workers at the saw mill she worked at after a few bouts of anal sex. I'm telling you, I had to get out of there it was too much.


The STD thing - I don't care if it was her fault or not, I dont want to sleep with a girl with an STD, it's a turn off, or call it a pet peeve of mine (shakes head)

lol fuck.

There are two major ones i look for as well:

You can't always go out somewhere and once you start seeing her more if she cannot sit and watch a movie or enjoy being around you without doing something or having sex then she is not a keeper, she's fun. this shows she'll prolly a) cheat and/or b) spend every dollar you ever make.

Also if she resorts to her parents before making any decisions I suggest running the other way. Parents are important, but being that dependent on them is far too much immaturity.

So on that logic, if a girl is fun she'll probably cheat on you?

One major thing I look out for is how she is with her phone, if shes fairly secretive about it and wont even leave it in the same room as we when she goes out, then there's something wrong.

if she wakes up at night and looks at you and says "these are not the droids you are looking for" and goes back to sleep you should probably rethink your situation. true story..and it doesn't end well either.

I got a couple...

If she has more self-help books in her bookcase than literature.
She mentions how high her IQ is, but yet not many people "understand her."
She's over 30 with no car, no phone (cell or otherwise) and/or a history of changing residences and/or jobs multiple times in the last year.

Oh I got a few RED FLAGS to add

- She avoids talking about sex
- She dumps you
- She has sex with you on the first date (this one will be debatable depending on dynamics of YOUR situation)
- She licks your dick like a cat drinking milk
- She's too shy to talk
- She is emotionally immature, easier to spot as you get older

- She says she's scared to commit to a relationship, get out of there quick
- She has no ambition to get a job
- She's never worked a day in her life
- She tries to impress you too much (i've had a girl paint pictures and do sketches etc for me because she knew i liked art...sounds sweet but in this scenario it was just plain creepy)
- She is dishonest with you in anyway

Some of the things suggested by other members are indeed red flags, but some are not. I'll go over the ones which are not red flags and explain my reasoning.

-STD - yes, it could mean she's a whore, but she could've got it by a cheating bf. Not a red flag.
- She dumps you - by the time she dumps you, you should've picked up on other red flags. Dumping you, per se, is not a red flag. If she dumps you, then takes you back, then dumps you, then takes you back, then yes, it's a red flag.
- She licks your dick like a cat drinking milk - maybe she hasn't suck enough dicks to know how to properly do it? Tell her that's not the way to do it, and show her how to properly suck your cock. Not a red flag

"She licks your dick like a cat drinking milk "

How is inexperience a red flag?

I have standards. It's my red flag. Sup?

One thing I'll add to this is also if you think she's inexperienced and you tell her how to suck your cock like the promised land was at the center of it and she still licks your dick like a cat drinking milk, she may fall in to the emotionally manipulative category.

MACK you know what I'm talking about. It's actually the reason I put this red flag here, I've experienced this type of woman.

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