ok guys ima make this short and sweet

met a girl at the university bar, got her number told me to hit her up after break. ran into her a few days before she told me to her up at the same bar and chilled went back to her house but her friednds were staying over so couldnt fclose but made with her and left.

met her next day for new years eve, got into a fight and knocked some kid out in the party where we agreed to meet because the kid was pissing everyone off! made with her infront of alot of ppl, went back to her place, slept over, couldnt fclose she was on her period and would not fool around besides make out.

i told her straight up i didnt want a relationship but i said if she wanted to im open to the idea but im not looking for it. set up a day 2 to watch mission impossible, she txt me 30 min b4 asking if we can reschedule i said "NO, wat r u doing later ?" she is like "come to the bar everyone is going" she gets a number infront of me from some fucking afc i use to work with. i should of laid off her more but i wanted to get laid, anyways back at her place her friends are there and HB4 and HB3 and her weed dealer comes with his firend, she like tries to make out with him infront of me... i told her look, just tell me to leave, idc but that is kinda disrespectful you know...

I know i left some details out because it is a very long loing story, but anyways what do you guys think? I dont care bout her nor want to pursuit but i want to know for future refrence if i am caught in the same situation...thanks!

Day 2 at movies? I don't like going to the movies, even with my male friends. It's damn boring. She still wanted to see you, which is good, but I would have declined the bar thing. Why agree to setting yourself back in isolation, and go somewhere where you have to compete for her attention again? Next time just politely decline and make up some bullshit about having work in the morning. Then schedule a better date idea later in the week.

I wouldn't look too much into the weed dealer thing. I'm not going to say what my friends deal, but I'll let you know they get a lot of physical attention from girls who are not interested in them at all. It's hard to explain to a friend that a girl is giving him a back rub because she wants free drugs or a discount, not that she wants to sleep with him.

If you find yourself in that situation again, don't tell her to tell you to leave. That's like asking her if it's ok for you to leave. Don't put her in a position of power, leave of your own volition.

Also, seriously HB4 and HB3? With friends as ugly as that, I'm guessing your girl is a 5 at most, who the fuck cares about her opinion?

thanks man.. ur right.. i just posted it up so i know what to do if i ever encounter myself in that position again man. i already dropped it have not txt her and will not contact her buti like what you point out about putting her in a position of power and yes i didnt see it that way that by meeting her at the bar i have to compete for her attention!

THANKS ALOT !!

She tried to make out with some other dude, on a semi-date with you!?!?!?

WHAT THE FUCK!

AND YOU ASKED HER TO TELL YOU TO LEAVE!!!

WOOOOOOOOWWWWWWW!

Dude, I would've just been like...okay that's not cool. I'm out!

And then you know she'd be begging me to stay, so I'd be like... "Look, I just wanted to fuck you. Now I don't. Goodbye!"

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i know man, but hey you live and learn bro. im over it.