| well you already know what she desires in a guy. he has to be able to offer her something. something she desires. im not saying bribe a date, im saying become the object she desires, and she will want you because you have something to offer her, yourself. lol you were probably already aware of all that, but i wanted to put it out there, just in case. find out if you have anything in common with her, thats the first step, even if it means just talkin to her as if you dont know her, to find out what shes into (besides fasion. unless your into fasion, and in which case, there you go). i do not recommend trying to get involved in things she likes strictly because she likes 'em, because the second you try and act like you know what your talking about, she will be able to see right throug you. second, you know she works her ass off, so becare that you dont make yourself too available. that is one of the most unattractive qualities in a guy is making yourself too available. thirdly, you may not get this girl. not because she is impossible, but because you cant get every single one, so careful not to focus too much on this girl because, 1 there are other girls, and 2 you might get disappointed, and thats never fun. btw, this might fall under the catagory of what some here call, one-itis.
good luck,
PB
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