I met a girl off POF. She is probably a 6/10, but I am just getting back into the game, so I will take whatever I can get for a date as long as it is not a waste of time and it might boost my ego.

We had a decent date, ended with a hug. I text her two days later "Hey, how's it going?"

She responds a day and a half later "Hey there! Busy week, glad its the weekend. How about you?"

My gut tells me that she is very mildly interested and there is no point in continuing as I wasn't that interested either.

Thoughts?

Some other girl mentioned that there is a woman's book called The Rules or something along those lines. It tells women to wait a day before responding.

I think you are thinking and/or reading to much into this. Saying that if your not that into her then whats the point, especially if you are going to over thing and/or read into things to much. As you have no idea if she reads that book or not and you have no idea what her life is like as she may actually be busy as shocking as that may sound.

She is a lawyer and she said she does work long hours sometimes, but how long does it take to respond to a text? like 30 seconds

I just think if I was into someone (and wasn't running game) I would respond when I got the message or within the hour.

Brother, I'm right there with you. I've waited DAYS for text responses, only to be fed the 'I had a busy week', or 'Sorry, crashed right after work'...but saw this person online 4 or 5 times during that time. And it isn't like I was stalking either...

You ask a very good question...just how long does it take to respond to a text, 30 secs?

I've had 10 # closes in a little over 3 weeks...I wait DAYS for responses. My question is: Why would you give a guy, you don't know from Adam, your personal phone number if you weren't interested, or planned on holding conversations? I've come to sense that it IS a game to them, and they are almost always flakes....

What makes you think she was running game? Did you even read my reply? You need to rethink your line of thinking. Did you think that she had no time to carry on a text conversation? I think you need to be more realistic when it comes to girls and don't expect them to come at your beckon call.

If it takes a girl more than 2 days to reply she isn't that into you really. I think you and DaHypnotoad don't seem to get that girls actually have lives and can't away's reply back the instant you text them.
The question is a stupid one really. Because it doesn't deal with real world realities. I had girls that where highly interested in me not reply back to me for a couple of days as they couldn't for one reason or another. Shit happens and I think you need to give these girls more breathing room as expecing them to text back asap isn't realistic.
A girl may give her number because you made her comfortable enough to do so or at the time her interest in you was high enough to give it. You do realize girls can loose interest in you right?
If a girl is constantly taking at least 2 days to reply back then she isn't into you and will have a high chance of flaking on you. As far as them thinking its a game to them I am sure to some it is but I doubt most. I think you need to work on building more interest. The number on reason why a girl will flake is lack of interest.

Hey man, I get that you're doing this for a confidence booster, but it seems like its not boosting your confidence.

At some point of the game, the temptation is to date everything that moves. Its how we think we'll be able to transition from faking it to making it-- and sometimes that works.

The entire point though is to build up a resistance so that no one girl will have this kind of effect over you. I think you have to drop her if you can't brush off the fact that she doesn't respond quickly, without effort.

Out of curiosity, does she pick up when you call?

I think you're a retard. Unless pussy is coming out of the sky for you, there's no reason for you to act like a sensitive little bitch and not text her back.

Although you could have used a bit more tact, Quoted for truth.

Ya pretty harsh indeed. I am on these forums because I am trying to learn. I am going through a divorce and I am trying to learn from those who are more experienced as I am just getting back in the game. My response was just me asking a question. I wasn't say Jurupa was wrong, I was just going through my line of thinking and wanted clarification.