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Ahh, lashing out at strangers on the internet; the pinnacle of sanity.
I for one have never claimed to be a master pick-up artist. In fact, I probably know less about woman then anyone else; hence my username.
However, since you're a self-proclaimed seducer/PUA that has nothing to prove, and can fuck 1000 woman on a given night, maybe you can give me some advice, since you're such a master.
This girl has blocked you on her phone.
This girl has blocked you on social media websites.
This girl has taken out a restraining order on you.
You're actually going to tell me that she is still in love with you? Really?
Because to me, these aren't mixed signals. I don't think I need to read Mystery's new book to figure that out. Sounds like common sense to me.
But hey, you're the master pua/seducer, and I'm just an AFC. So explain to me how any of her actions indicates that she has the slightest interest in communicating with you.
Haha..
No, I am Jason English, and Txacoli is herself..
Now as far as lashing out at anyone on the internet, I haven't "lashed" at all but merely responded to someone that "lashed" out at me. Period.
I also want to clarify that I never claimed to be a "master seducer" LMFAO, or that I on any given night can f-close 1000 women (LMFAO even more).. I am not a master of anything except myself. I am a firm believer that no one is truly a master of anything, there is always more to learn. Whether you're Stephen K. Hayes or Robert Greene.. The only person I need to prove anything to is myself, I simply like to "point things out" to others, and have no problem with someone giving me their opinion. Especially about my situation.
Do I know for a fact that my ex still loves me? No. Do I believe she does, YES. Do I believe she wants to get back together with me? NO. You can still love someone and know that being with them is toxic and just won't work no matter how hard you try..
We split up in July 2011, but she still stayed in contact with me, daily texts, phone calls at night before bed time, she still went out on dates with me.. All whilst telling me "I'm trying to salvage what we have.. I'm trying to start over at square one.."
She bought a shitload of relationship self help books and brought them to my place crying, telling me that she is truly in love with me, I'm the one she wants to be with for sure and that no matter what had happened (which was never really that bad) she wants to get help together, work on US, together... I was all for it.
Except my jealousy, and previous suspicions got the best of me. I couldn't get over a certain "situation" for good cause. It was hard, I wanted to, but no matter how hard I fought the urge, I always fucked up.
So one night she told me we were officially done, it was over (she had said the same things before but always came back) but a week later she was still going out to coffee and dinner with me!? So we got into a huge verbal argument/war of words and she deleted and blocked me on fb.. But yet she still kept in contact with me after because we both had a cellphone plan together, I always payed my half on time even when we split up before because I love her and am an honest man.
So I showed up at her new place a week or so later and she lets me in.. Keep in mind we split up before she moved into this spot, and on her DVD/game shelf right next to her TV she has a framed poem with penguins on it that I made for her (hmmm?) and on the lazy boy chair in front of the TV is a blanket with a soft stuffed penguin that I recently gave her!? (hmmm gets better)
And... On her bed another stuffed animal penguin that I gave her... Now for the record these aren't the only penguin stuffed animals she has, she's literally Jessica Alba's character in Good Luck Chuck. She has a billion penguin things and stuffed animals. But why the things that I gave her?
Her behaviors towards me + these tell tale signs she's holding on to me= Me thinking I still have a chance, that there's still feelings there!? How does that make me crazy? So I asked her if she missed me, and she said SHE DOES, but not when I'm around.. She says when I'm gone she thinks about the good times, but when I call her or show up at her place it brings up negative memories...
So I leave on a good note, hug her, kiss her, all good..
Next morning I wake up to a temporary protection order???
WTF?
Even though I have explained all of this before in this thread and in a previous one, maybe now SOME of you will ease up.. I'm not going to break the order and get arrested. All I wanted to know was IF she still has feelings (which I believe she does) how could I go about getting her back after the order is up, 12/2/2012...
If you have nothing constructive to say, say nothing. You are not in my shoes, therefore you cannot dictate how I feel or how she feels.. It looks crazy, and in all honesty this situation is. But it's not yours, it's mine. And I love who she is good and bad, unconditionally.
I've been getting laid, and I;ve been moving on somewhat but I still think about her, just last night I dreamt all was good and we were making dinner together, laughing and being silly like we used to... I'm not moving on because want to, but because I have to at this point. But more importantly, I love her.. I should have let her go long ago..
There, that's about as much of an "explanation" anyone is going to get. Maybe it will shed some light upon this dark and ridiculous thread...
CHAT
. We're all just trying to help each other so that it doesn't happen again. If you're just trolling everyone for attention or what not, can you please go to a different forum instead?