Will you help an old alter boy father ?

I have been speaking to this woman on line for a few weeks.

We are both married and she wants to see me but is feeling guilty about hurting her husband.

So she tells me she feels guilty but she wants to get to a place where she is cool with cheating and tells me she isnt going anywhere, in terms of jumping out of our relationship.

We are still talking but it feels a bit strained from my perspective, pleasant but cant seem to break the ice again.

I want to have a relationship with her, we both want the same but neither wants to hurt anyone.

What the hell can I do to help her get past this guilt ?

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Without judgment:

The best approach here is to not hit on her. Treat it as if you're just two people meeting with the hopes of finding new friends. Then when you meet, use your best indirect game.

If its past that point and you've already established that your intention is to have an affair with her, your best bet is to treat it as if it is LMR. Agree with her that it is wrong, then continue to game her.

Otherwise there's not a whole lot you can do. If these don't work out, then its not your fault. You can bring a horse to water...