Based on this infomation. Girl I've known for a year, we had a fling and I worked with her but it was like a romantic thing we didn't really do alot but we spent alot of time together. Later in the year people gossiped and she didn't like that so she told them she had a boyfriend to put them off. Last time I saw her was Novemeber.

We really did get on well and she was a nice girl but she told me she wasn't over her ex. A few weeks later she put she was in a relationship with some new guy on facebook and people really mocked me for this. She told me it was to make her ex jealous but I asked her did she just tell me about her ex to put me off and she said nothing. I got fired from my job and don't see her no more but we continued to speak on the phone intil this week and she would flirt etc etc.

Recently she became distant around christmas time but I still would contact her. On her moms profile it said tonight "congrats to my daughters marriage" and some other things about how she was crying and when a friend asked her mom the date she said it was in May. I asked her in the week whats going on in her life, surely she could tell me she had a boyfriend if it was true. She usually say she is single and thats it plus talks dirty to me now and then.

The last time her mom wrote stuff about the boyfriend on her profile and she said it was just to make her ex jealous but again I don't know. I'm not on her facebook, she removed me because I had asked her questions. I'm not sure what to do? I have alot of feelings and she cried for me a few times when things were not working out but think she probably would be stupid enough to get married soon. If she didn't want me to contact her though she could of told me she was with someone right though.

I hate to be so honest my dude, but your in the friendzone. To be honest I think its best you forgot about this girl. It seems like your wasting a lot of time on her, if she is still doing things to try and make her ex boyfriend jealous, she really just wants to be with him.

Her mother has removed this status message after only 12 hours. Hmmm.

You're right though. I just wish I could remove all the thoughts of her as she is just my type.

Hey man I feel for you, this is very similar to the situation I find myself in right now. I won't get into details on your thread but I figure the best thing to do is to stop making contact with her altogether, if you don't you will just continue to obsess and one girl just isn't worth it.

Hey man I feel for you, this is very similar to the situation I find myself in right now. I won't get into details on your thread but I figure the best thing to do is to stop making contact with her altogether, if you don't you will just continue to obsess and one girl just isn't worth it.