Hey everybody, what's up?

I started pua about two months ago, and I am having more success than I could have dreamed of. Now, I want to take a shot at my former oneitis, whom I haven't seen since high school (6 months ago).

Let me start by saying that my confidence level has skyrocketed. I feel like a different man. 6 months ago I got friend zoned by her, I know now I really didn't stand a chance when I asked her out. I had been adoring her for a year, maybe more. (I really did all the typical AFC stuff)

I recently sent her a message saying 'boo' on facebook. She answered back with kind of a long story, asking questions and everything. I'm in doubt what I should do now.

I was thinking disregard the questions, and just show off in a couple of lines how awesome my life is now (to create jealousy). I also feel like I have to make her feel uncomfortable a little bit, to show that I'm not at all supplicative anymore. I basically want to make her wonder what happened to me in 6 months.

Can anyone outline a conversation and where to go from there?

For the record: I'm not interested in a relationship with this girl... let's say I'm interested in proving pua techniques right.

Be with a girl that's hotter then her or maybe as hot, and make sure she sees you with her.

Coming out of friendzone is hard.

If you can't answer that question entirely on your own, you aren't ready to be messaging old crushes. Old feelings will quickly be reignited and you will be helpless again. Good luck with her though.

2 months of picking up girls is not very much. That's 8 weekends out of an entire lifetime.

The idea that you're trying to prove pick-up techniques is faulty logic. You imply that these techniques are foolproof methods for getting any girl. Also you imply that you will infallibly use the correct technique at the correct time.

I'd like to reframe pick up for you. Pick up techniques, from any guru, are training wheels, to be used only until your inner game is strong enough that you can come up with the right moves on your own, as things happen. It's not a science, it's an art. Develop your own artistic style, don't steal someone elses.

This guy is on point especially his last comment, which 95% of the community never realizes...

and not to be an asshole, but I can tell you haven't master or are even getting good at PUA, because you are trying to a) validate yourself to someone b) your talking as, if your a whole new person.

One thing is you should never pretend who you are not, because it won't last because your true self will eventually come out and everything will all be a lie and it won't last. Always be yourself use this material to guide you to find a more confident you (inner game).

Proving your skills right isn't the reason you should be trying to pick up a girl. If you don't want anything from this girl or not interested in her, don't game her.

Like you when I started to get more successful, I tried to get with my one-itis, but then I realized two things . I was doing this not because I liked her it was to prove to her that I could be attractive and she should have never LJBF'd me. I was trying to stroke my ego and trying to feel validated; two no no's. And I stopped.

Take Slip N Slides advice, make your style your own and see the reality pick-up

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Thanks for all the tips guys. I now see the error of my ways. I WAS trying to validate myself, which a confident person should never have to do.

I want to say one more thing though, I think I always stayed myself. I'm trying to figure out what I meant by 'a different person' in the other post. I have always been very confident in most aspects of my life, but for some reason, however, girls was never one of them. I feel more congruent with myself even, now that I am improving that side of myself.

I won't chase my oneitis... thanks for getting me on the right track.