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PostPosted: Wed Oct 19, 2011 3:31 am 
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I am quite tired of no one listen to me, to explain me better I am tired of people don't follow or simply ignore my ideas and opinions.

For example, sometimes , when I am hanging out or studying with my classmates, I give one idea or suggest a plan or a place to go no one listen to me and after minutes or even second other person suggest the same thing and then the group listen to him or her carefully and even accept the idea.

I wanna improve my voice, more exactly I want to get a stroger voice.A voice with power which no one can ignore

In conclusion I want a more PERSUASIVE voice.

Any advice or stuff from whoever which can help me?


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 3:46 am 
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Voice coach or a recorder. For cheapness (since it sounds like you are a student) go with the voice recorder. I use garage band and a mic. Then record yourself talking and listen to it. Notice what you want to change then work on changing it. Finding a role model with a voice you want to mimic can give you a good direction, practice while listening to him. Work on volume, diction, not being monotone, and not saying ummm or like. Plus anything else you want to change. Then practice. Practice some more. Keep practicing until it becomes your natural voice. Repeat every three days or so until you record yourself the first time how you want to sound.

But that may be unnecessary. When it comes time to be heard by your classmates, speak up. Even if they ignore you, just say it louder. It's okay to be persistent. Yell if you have to, until it becomes impossible to ignore you. It shouldn't come to that point anyways. If it does find some new classmates to hang out with. They are being major assholes and you do not deserve that. No one does. Chances are when you find new friends they may change their mind about you, but stay away from them anyways (still be polite). They are being tyrants to you, shoving you down and feeding off your abilities. All the while negging you so they seem superior to you. It's a seriously fucked up situation that will mess with your inner game until you leave it. I've been there, and leaving that was the one of the best decisions I ever made. If this is the case no amount of voice coaching will make a difference, they already decided just to ignore you and mock you.


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But that may be unnecessary. When it comes time to be heard by your classmates, speak up. Even if they ignore you, just say it louder. It's okay to be persistent. Yell if you have to, until it becomes impossible to ignore you. It shouldn't come to that point anyways. If it does find some new classmates to hang out with. They are being major assholes and you do not deserve that. No one does. Chances are when you find new friends they may change their mind about you, but stay away from them anyways (still be polite). They are being tyrants to you, shoving you down and feeding off your abilities. All the while negging you so they seem superior to you. It's a seriously fucked up situation that will mess with your inner game until you leave it. I've been there, and leaving that was the one of the best decisions I ever made. If this is the case no amount of voice coaching will make a difference, they already decided just to ignore you and mock you.
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It's funny that i came across this because I was wondering the same thing but I finally figured out how to have a deeper tone to my speech.

During psych today there's this HB9 that sits in front of me, who I've been throwing IOD's at just because she flirts with this dude next to her all the time. But constantly tries to get me to talk to her (looks over shoulder every 5 mins to steal glances at me). I'm not giving in but anyways ....

So we split up into partners, and my partner asks me what were suppose to do (he looked pretty high) and I say in a deep voice (I kind of suprised myself) what were doing and the girl in front of me just instinctively whips her head around, like she was automatically drawn to my voice. I ignored her but the key to my deep voice was that I lowered it to a whisper almost but loud enough to where people around me can still hear.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2011 12:06 pm 
I had the same problem and I came with this awesome solution. My advice is the following: basically all you have to do is humming. Of course don't do it in front of other people but every time you have the possibility keep on practicing. I can't quite explain that but you should try and make the noise come from different source. For example try humming with your stomach.
Once you get into the habit of doing that not only your voice would become louder but it would sound more smoothly and manly in a way. I had I was useful :wink:


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2011 10:48 am 
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Agree with Tippicanoe..

You may also consider:

-Get a job in sales / customer service / bar work where you have to talk to people in an unstructured way. The noisier the workplace is the better for you.. will teach you to speak up. The days I worked in a restaurant, I honestly don't think I've been as outgoing since. I'm actually looking to get back into that sort of thing (casually) for similar reasons.

-Team sports will also help you with this

-Remember, your value and what you can contribute to the group will dictate who listens to you as well as you're tone/volume of voice.

Good luck, you can definitely pull this off.


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One good exercise I've been using to practice speaking up and putting base in my voice is to turn up the radio when I'm driving somewhere work school etc. and speak/make noises louder than the music without yelling or straining yourself. Once you start to go deeper and speak from the diaphragm you will be able to better hear yourself over the music. From there you can turn it up and try to go even louder. Do NOT scream over the music or exert yourself in any way. It should not feel more difficult than speaking in your other voice but it will feel somewhat different in your chest/stomach.

As for avoiding monotony it's good to listen to radio show hosts since voice is what they get paid for. If they're good at what they do, their tone, volume and pacing are all finely honed. Also listen to anyone speak about something they are passionate about and you will see similar vocal expressions but with body language to boot.


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Yeah, i suggest you in your car, on in your room, put whatever instrumental, there is tons and tons on you tube, and just repeat a song that you already know, or learn one. and do it over and over again, for fun, changing your voice, ajusting the rythm, and styles.


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I wanna improve my voice, more exactly I want to get a stroger voice.A voice with power which no one can ignore

In conclusion I want a more PERSUASIVE voice.

Any advice or stuff from whoever which can help me?
A powerful voice is a persuasive one (usually) not always

When communicating you want to;

1)Imagine the person your talking is standing like 5ft further away
2)Inhale through your nose deeply into your lungs
3)Let your voice resonate out while pushing the air out through your mouth

Make yourself consciouslly aware of your voice for at least 3 weeks till it sinks in naturually. Be noted that you don't need to shout, iv'e had a boss that shouted every conversation.. even phone calls and office chats it was bizarre, though most people respected it I found it a bit strange.

It's difficult but don't give up.. I used to speak so quietly it was barely audible but that's how I improved my voice. People will notice and some will try stop you (because you are messing with their reality) but eventually they will have to accept your change in personna. Ultimately most people will find you to be more confident and attractive (friends,family and girls).


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Confidence....... that is all


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work on your neck muscles, that'll help you for sure!


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Open up your throat, It' a technique used be singers to get more ring. But, if you do it then your voice will sound more vibrant. Also, put your tongue slightly lower than your bottom teeth (gums). This will allow you project more, but it might feel a little awkward.

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