ok guys.. I really need your help here.. Right when I found out about PUA community (I started with mystery method) I was pretty naive and I did everything from the book, but there was no Me in there.. And it was weird of course. And at that time I met one girl, I really liked her and I did this shit with gaming.. And I went too far with some things. The worst two were that I gamed her when she was actually already my girlfriend only I didn`t see that, bcs it was happening to me for the first time.. And the 2nd, maybe even worse thing was, tjhat I lied to her in some parts what I am really like. And those things were later the thing, that could gave me another shot when I screwed up if I haven`t lied to her.. And now I regret that, bcs we really hit it off great. Please any advice? Is it a good idea that I have a little "gayspeech" and that I tell her, that I made some things up back then? Or would it even get worse?
I know I should move on and make that lie a reality, but.. I feel kind a sorry for this

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There are no lesbians, just women who never met Sid.

are the two of you together? broken up? what did you lie about and what is the situation between you two?

We kind a were together, but I always did some shit or screwed smth up, so that we were on "about to be together" for like 2 months.. And later after few months, we "broke up" and she said that she never felt anything and all the usual...
I lied about that I had one serious relationship and that I have experience at this relationship things and that I was with a lot of girls (one night stands).. She doesn`t know that that`s not true, but it would be a lot different if she knew...
Now.. It`s weird, we barely talk and she told me back then, that nothing more then friends... And at new years eve, i texted her that I`ll come to her and I will dance with her into the new year and I think she was psyched.. And then I didn`t come to her.. hah.. Advice?

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There are no lesbians, just women who never met Sid.

Are you currently under the influence of any medication?

Why you ask? Could be true, you never know.

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There are no lesbians, just women who never met Sid.

The lesson here is to be completely honest and upfront about who you are and what you want from now on. Your next girlfriend will undoubtedly appreciate it.

Your boy,
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^this. hahaha

this is part of the problem with PUA material. U have to start out lying and sometimes u get a girl who didnt need to be gamed, and u actually like her. But once u start off on a lie, u cant go back.