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PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2012 11:06 pm 
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What if he was 6 foot 5 and the boyfriend was like a midget or something but he knew MMA or something and could still kick his arse lol

Most of the time a girl has had a boyfriend he hasn't been that big and I am a big guy so it doesn't phase me.

Learn a martial art or do MMA or bodybuilding then you know you can take the guy out if he starts and would be better protection for the girl.
Hockey players fight all the time too.

yeah so learn a martial art, and master the art of pickup, and work out so that u look good to women.

where do u get the money for martial arts classes, pua material and nice clothes, when u dont have time to work? :D

This is the trouble, its alot of personal investment, when there are other more important things in life


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What if he was 6 foot 5 and the boyfriend was like a midget or something but he knew MMA or something and could still kick his arse lol

Most of the time a girl has had a boyfriend he hasn't been that big and I am a big guy so it doesn't phase me.

Learn a martial art or do MMA or bodybuilding then you know you can take the guy out if he starts and would be better protection for the girl.
Isn't this kind of primeape thinking? I am curious though

I am an athlete, tall and muscular, my female friends have assured me that I am a 9. I started doing Wing Tsun, not very good at it yet though, and I've been in the millitary so I'm good at first aid.

But how do you come around saying all this without sounding like a needy douchebag that needs to confirm himself by bragging?


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What if he was 6 foot 5 and the boyfriend was like a midget or something but he knew MMA or something and could still kick his arse lol

Most of the time a girl has had a boyfriend he hasn't been that big and I am a big guy so it doesn't phase me.

Learn a martial art or do MMA or bodybuilding then you know you can take the guy out if he starts and would be better protection for the girl.
Isn't this kind of primeape thinking? I am curious though

I am an athlete, tall and muscular, my female friends have assured me that I am a 9. I started doing Wing Tsun, not very good at it yet though, and I've been in the millitary so I'm good at first aid.

But how do you come around saying all this without sounding like a needy douchebag that needs to confirm himself by bragging?
Well assuming your female friends werent bullshitting u, it should be evident to other women that u are a 9, and muscular.

That would be a good starting point, but make sure your friend werent bullshitting u first :D


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Right, you mentioned cheating.

If you really wanna go there you should remember one thing. Always make it seem like it just happened. She had no choice, she wanna pretend that it
A. Wasnt really cheating
B. Just happened once
C. Wasnt her fault
D. Might as well not have happened since it didnt mean anything
E. It was innocent
F. Is forgotten already

Plus, whenever anyone says that they have a bf I respond with "And I have a hamster, I win".

Later on you can just confess that you lied, you dont really have a hamster.
When I saw your name as last post I had a feeling I was about to get a verbal pimp slap for bad gaming :)
You complete killed me with the hamsterline too, I am going to use that one for sure next time

Thanks for your advice on how to get girls to cheat, but to me this HB was so delicate I couldn't place her on the scale, which is why I referred to her as a peruvian godess. My intention would not be to make her have an affair with me, but to replace her current boyfriend with myself.

How do I do that?
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Hey man, I didn't meat no be disrespectful. The only thing I was trying to say is that you don't need alcohol or drugs to seduce women you shouldn't rely on that.
No hard feels. No I don't need alcohol or drugs to game. Luckily I don't do drugs, what some people might confuse with doing drugs is that I smoke weed, which is a medicinal psychoactive plant, not a drug.

I am much more calm when I am high, and I find it actually improves my game. I never really have my swagger on when I'm sober.

As for the drinking - bad habbit, what can I say.
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I dont think that works. Most beautiful women do have boyfriends, if not they can call me.
The point of the hamsterline is not to charm her or to be so funny that she will declare her endless love to you for her humor. Nor is is meant to get you a "point" in the man-woman battler that people constantly think that pickup is. It is not a comeback.

The hamsterline is just meant to clearly show how much that statement scares you, which is, not at all. To show how much you care about the fact that she tells you that she has a boyfriend.
Actively trying to covince her to disregard that will never work, most people try to logic their way out of situations like that which makes them look tryhard and desperate. If you do that, you have lost her and every other set that has overheard the conversation. It is like begging her.
Passively telling her that yeah whatever that is her problem, her choice and you couldnt care one way or another does two things. It shows that you arent a desperate loser that is easily intimidated and it shows that you arent interested enough to do anything about it. Which is exactly what you are doing.
The reason for her telling you that she has a boyfriend is that her concern about her boyfriend is greater than her attraction to you. And why did her alarm go off? Because you showed too much interest. She needed an escaperoute and that is the standard one.

See what Im doing here?

Anyways, you dont have to use it if you dont think that it will work but I can guarantee you that it will work better than trying to charm her. You set off the alarm and now youd better turn it off before you go on, not run and hope the guards wont catch you.

As for becoming her bf, replacing him. There is nothing different about doing that pickup compared to any other pickup. It is really if anything better. If she has a bf the only thing you need to do is to be better than her bf. If she doesnt, you need to be better than every single guy in the world.

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Right, you mentioned cheating.

If you really wanna go there you should remember one thing. Always make it seem like it just happened. She had no choice, she wanna pretend that it
A. Wasnt really cheating
B. Just happened once
C. Wasnt her fault
D. Might as well not have happened since it didnt mean anything
E. It was innocent
F. Is forgotten already

Plus, whenever anyone says that they have a bf I respond with "And I have a hamster, I win".

Later on you can just confess that you lied, you dont really have a hamster.
When I saw your name as last post I had a feeling I was about to get a verbal pimp slap for bad gaming :)
You complete killed me with the hamsterline too, I am going to use that one for sure next time

Thanks for your advice on how to get girls to cheat, but to me this HB was so delicate I couldn't place her on the scale, which is why I referred to her as a peruvian godess. My intention would not be to make her have an affair with me, but to replace her current boyfriend with myself.

How do I do that?
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Hey man, I didn't meat no be disrespectful. The only thing I was trying to say is that you don't need alcohol or drugs to seduce women you shouldn't rely on that.
No hard feels. No I don't need alcohol or drugs to game. Luckily I don't do drugs, what some people might confuse with doing drugs is that I smoke weed, which is a medicinal psychoactive plant, not a drug.

I am much more calm when I am high, and I find it actually improves my game. I never really have my swagger on when I'm sober.

As for the drinking - bad habbit, what can I say.
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I dont think that works. Most beautiful women do have boyfriends, if not they can call me.
The point of the hamsterline is not to charm her or to be so funny that she will declare her endless love to you for her humor. Nor is is meant to get you a "point" in the man-woman battler that people constantly think that pickup is. It is not a comeback.

The hamsterline is just meant to clearly show how much that statement scares you, which is, not at all. To show how much you care about the fact that she tells you that she has a boyfriend.
Actively trying to covince her to disregard that will never work, most people try to logic their way out of situations like that which makes them look tryhard and desperate. If you do that, you have lost her and every other set that has overheard the conversation. It is like begging her.
Passively telling her that yeah whatever that is her problem, her choice and you couldnt care one way or another does two things. It shows that you arent a desperate loser that is easily intimidated and it shows that you arent interested enough to do anything about it. Which is exactly what you are doing.
The reason for her telling you that she has a boyfriend is that her concern about her boyfriend is greater than her attraction to you. And why did her alarm go off? Because you showed too much interest. She needed an escaperoute and that is the standard one.

See what Im doing here?

Anyways, you dont have to use it if you dont think that it will work but I can guarantee you that it will work better than trying to charm her. You set off the alarm and now youd better turn it off before you go on, not run and hope the guards wont catch you.

As for becoming her bf, replacing him. There is nothing different about doing that pickup compared to any other pickup. It is really if anything better. If she has a bf the only thing you need to do is to be better than her bf. If she doesnt, you need to be better than every single guy in the world.
I know. its kinda obvious why u would mention the hamster, like I dont give a fuck if u have a boyfriend.

what do u do if she says she's married?


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Frankly for me personally it doesnt matter if it is a boyfriend or a husband. I know that many people think that the marrige is a holy thing and oh la la, married, sooo big. Yeah, whatever. Its just a religious rite performed to tell a higher power that you were meant for each other. And heres the deal, thats all fine if you believe in a higher power. But if you dont. Its meaningless.

Plus many marriges arent all that great. Who do you think is more likely to stray from the path of good, the girlfriend who has had her partner for half a year and is still discovering new things about him or the wife who has been married to the same boring guy for the last 15 years and spends her nights dreaming of how different life could be?

That said, I dont think that it is good to cheat and obviously it is not nice to steal someones partner married or not. Not if it breaks the one rule you should care about "Leave her better than you found her."

I see it like this though. If you havent promised her anything and she knows what she is doing (meaning you arent lying to her), it is her decision. It is easy to sit here sasying, dont steal someones partner but it is frankly up to them to get stolen or not. They arent brainless pawns, they make their own decisions and it is their problem if they choose to break their own moral codes.

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:21 am 
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Frankly for me personally it doesnt matter if it is a boyfriend or a husband. I know that many people think that the marrige is a holy thing and oh la la, married, sooo big. Yeah, whatever. Its just a religious rite performed to tell a higher power that you were meant for each other. And heres the deal, thats all fine if you believe in a higher power. But if you dont. Its meaningless.

Plus many marriges arent all that great. Who do you think is more likely to stray from the path of good, the girlfriend who has had her partner for half a year and is still discovering new things about him or the wife who has been married to the same boring guy for the last 15 years and spends her nights dreaming of how different life could be?

That said, I dont think that it is good to cheat and obviously it is not nice to steal someones partner married or not. Not if it breaks the one rule you should care about "Leave her better than you found her."

I see it like this though. If you havent promised her anything and she knows what she is doing (meaning you arent lying to her), it is her decision. It is easy to sit here sasying, dont steal someones partner but it is frankly up to them to get stolen or not. They arent brainless pawns, they make their own decisions and it is their problem if they choose to break their own moral codes.
Well there are marriages and there are MARRIAGES. I remember when chat rooms were big, u'd see people who met online and got married, and a week later, they were back on the chat boards, saying how lovely their wedding was.

Meanwhile every horndog online was hitting them up in the box.

Then there are people who really are married, and have families. I dont fuck with that


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