Anchoring is obviously when you can get a girl to cum when you say certain things while stimulating them in a certain way. With Anchoring you can make a girl cum 20 plus times with ease. It actually isn't too difficult.

The first thing you have to get a girl anchored is you obviously have to get very proficient at making this girl cum. Multiple orgasms should be easy. You should be touching on double digit orgasms if you want to anchor a girl.

Reading when a girl(each girl is different) is close to orgasm is very important, it is very important to know when so you can say and do the right thing at the right time. So you need to study some body language as well, and baseline their behavior very well as well.

Now once you know how to give a girl an orgasm and when she has one, then all you have to do is consistently whisper what you want her to have an orgasm to. In some cases you can hold their hand at the same time, rub their elbow, bite them, whatever. Then all you have to do is consistently do the action with them while saying your line, until you train them.

With one girl I use to say "cum for me hard Now" right as she was climaxing and about to cum, people tend to listen when they are in a pleasurable trance(such as pre-orgasm). I just did this several times while she was cumming, I do mean several times like 10+ times. Make sure not to do it every orgasm or it could link to an orgasm unfairly to the girl, she won't be able to cum with out it.

I don't know how soon it started working but I know I kept doing it. I even had her at the point where she could imagine me saying it and she would cum, I was talking to her through a computer and tapped in to her feel system, and then I would describe things. I turned her on then I told her to remember the sound of my voice and how I say "cum for me hard Now" and she told me she had an orgasm. I can't confirm it but I do believe she was masturbating at the time as well. It wouldn't surprise if both actions together helped get her there.

Is that enough for you?

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Yes, you explained it great, very detailed! I'll try it with a new lover, our first sex she had a multiple orgasm, so I guess she qualifies
To return the favor I'll pitch in some tips on licking the vajayjay
First off, I think your technique sounds very good. A lot of girls find the stimulation of the g-spot necessary (if you're going for the multiple o, there's no way without it, or at least I haven't accomplished it yet, I once managed to get a multi when masturbating by holding off the orgasm just before climaxing and then slowly continuing in very slow rhythm, but this requires perfect timing), but sometimes I like to give her a purely clitoral orgasm, so I'll concentrate on that now. Just like you, I start of slowly. I start by smelling it and just teasing her with my nose. Then I'll do a couple of gentle, soft tongue moves from the center towards the clit, with the mouth wrapped around also using the breath to create some pleasant sensations, increasing the intensity with each stroke, I'll take my time with this, it's very arousing for me and my partner usually. The continuation depends on what kind of girl I'm dealing with. Some girls are more sensitive than others, me for example, I'm very sensitive down there, and when the tongue is too rigid, it fucking hurts me, I'm that sensitive. Most women aren't though. If it's a sensitive girl I'll just focus on moving my attention to the general clit area with a very soft tongue until she gets into the "rhythm". Some girls require a faster pace with very concentrated movements on the clit itself, some prefer wider strokes. Then I'll proceed until she orgasms, doing a little push pull along the way to delay the climax and make it better, or just slowing down and playing some more, sucking the clit, or doing some circular and side to side movement sporadically before I return to the rhythm.
If it's not a sensitive girl, and she needs stronger stimulation, I'll run my nose down her clit as well and just use my whole face in the movement.
If she doesn't do it by her self, I'll place her hands on my head to encourage her to show me what she likes best and get into her rhythm best. It's also a big turn on for me, especially if she really grabs my head and really gets into it.
Now, when I sense she is going to come I do the following. Usually before she comes, you can notice her clitoris will become smaller, it actually goes inwards a bit and then comes back out when she orgasms. When I feel it going inwards, it's sure sign she's coming, at this point I will stop producing any movement with my tongue because it can screw up the whole thing if you get the rhythm wrong and diminish her orgasm. If she wasn't holding your head before, she will be now, she can't help her self. I'll just put my tongue out softly and let her work the rhythm, since during the orgasm the rhythm changes too, especially towards the last bit of the orgasm and in my opinion the best bit, usually she will be making some really slow movements with her hips.

Damn I'm horny now.

Some general tips for the beginners. Don't lick pussy porn style, it's not good. Don't spread her labia with your hands and work the clit with a pointy tongue with your mouth away from her pussy, it's useless at best and painful at worst. Always make sure your mouth is where your tongue is and you adjust the tongue rigidness to the girl in question. If in doubt, just pretend your making out with her.

Cheers

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Glad to know I have a good technique, it seems to get results.

If you want to continue stimulating a girl while she is climaxing, just stop look up and tell her "you know you are not allowed to cum until I tell you right? I'll give you permission to cum." This works really well, at least I've used it and controlled them very well. It drives a lot of girls wild.

I've had girls climaxed for 3 minutes then I said "Now baby, you feel how good that feels(and I continue stimulate them), are you ready to cum (I continue to stimulate them)? "Not yet, getting closer, not yet", building for a little while and then I just tell them "ok baby cum for me HARD NOW". Wow! I've heard girls get pretty loud after that release.

Another thing I did that was awesome was I got a girl to keep cumming for over a minute. I started out by telling her that I want her to cum longer then she ever has. I explained that I want her to start cumming but that she couldn't stopped cumming until I told her. Then I told her when she starts cumming for me she will start cumming and it will feel better and better with each second. Then I got her to that point and I told her to start cumming. I told her "keep cumming. Keep cumming, now cum a little harder". Just instructing her just kept going for like a minute while talking and stimulating her. That is an awesome feeling when you know no one has been nearly as good as you.

Don't underestimate the power of NLP/hypnosis during intimate moments, it can really elevate an orgasm. I have used my voice to gain more orgasms then my fingers on a few girls. I have even told one girl you cum on demand for me, she looked at me shyly, smiled, and said "I know I hate it". She loved that I knew how to make her cum whenever I wanted.

I'm really interested in a better description of how you touch your nose to the clit and gently breath in her? Is that what you were saying, gentle breaths you said?

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Great stuff everyone. The evolution of this topic is great. I am glad to have planted the seed. It started with me looking for the best way to ask a girl for a BJ.

Then the point i got was, you put in what you take out. I truly am getting better at going down on a women.

Then we all had some best BJ stories. All of us men women, straight and bisexuals. The stuff about how to please a women with the anchoring, that was great.

I have been going out for like 3 nights in a row so I have not had the opportunity to post replies to all the info on my thread. But I am mighty proud of the thread. And I read everything all you informed ladies and gentlemen post. I plan on taking a few hours and replying to everything. Please keep it going; I popped my popular thread cherry.

Currently people are posting great stories about some great techniques, on going down. Other topics regarding head, are acceptable and appreciated. The Title is the best way to ask for it. Initially I wanted to get some really awesome thing that would automatically make her want to choke on dick. Go for it, peace and thanks all.

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Wow, how long have you been studying NLP techniques? Is there some recommended reading you could suggest?

The nose thing, what I do if a girl needs more stimulation, is that i run my nose down her clit until my tongue is in her vagina, then up again, running the nose up the clit, followed by the tongue, so she gets a lot of surface in one movement.

The breath thing, in the beginning when I still tease her, I'll put my mouth around the clit and breathe out warm air, followed by the tongue, it's usually very pleasant. Later when it gets heavier, you can use the breath in and breath out while in close contact with the pussy and add a growl of satisfaction hehe, I don't think it provides some sort of crazy stimulus, but I think it's very erotic, well to me it is at least.

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I haven't really ever studied NLP intensely, read about a book and a half. I understand the overall concept and have noticed what I can say during moments leading up to and orgasm. I have heard about how people who have anchored woman to have orgasms, based on basic hynosis and NLP(well basic for their world).

Monsters and Magic sticks was awesome, but the other book I read bit of was NLP: New Technology of Achievement, a little bland but packed full of useful information. It's not to difficult, it is far more basic then people realize. I know quite a bit of people(especially on the forum) are far better then anything I know on NLP. I'd actually go to that section and ask them. I'm sure there is some good info they could help with.

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poeticlyskuac I wanted you to elaborate on your voice tone and questioning leading up to the orgasm. You were saying that leading up to orgasm you have to know when she comes of course. I was just going to ask her to tell me when she is cumming. That way I could tell her stuff like "come hard for me now," and some of the other ones you said.

So you just sit down casually and have a talk with your partner about when she is cumming to really listen to you. Do they have any clue what your trying to do? I have a shy girl that is why I ask. Is there some format of questions or statements prior to the sex that you say. Can you lay out a simple convo you would have with a shy girl you wanted to give a great orgasm too. So I could try to replicate the experience by giving her some awesome head. I can talk in bed, I tend to be so bold, most of the time.

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I don't trust when a girl says she is going to cum because girls lie about having orgasms to please a man. I would avoid that if I was you, learn to read their body language and know when they orgasm, when they are building to an orgasm, and when they are climaxed.

I don't tell her what I am doing at all. I just do it, if they know what you are doing they can fight it. If they don't know what you are doing they are relaxed. You don't want them to try to think, you want them to be open minded. If a girl doesn't think it is possible it won't be for her. Once you can prove to a girl you can anchor her then her mind opens a bit. Then she will start to understand how much the mind has to do with an orgasm. Then from there you can kind of demand more and more of them with each sexual session.

So I told you how to anchor, you just have to follow that. You don't have to tell them anything about what you are doing. When it comes down to extending orgasms, I do not tell them before we start messing around. After a few orgasms I instruct them. They just listen they are already in a pleasure trance and very suggestible. So you just instruct to them to do it and they listen.

The tone of my voice is pleasurable, confident, pleasurable, you have to have the tone someone listens to, I don't know how else to explain it.

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I got myself excited too much.. haha. Any other things I could say to a girl to get her more into sex besides the obvious "do you like that" and "Cum for me hard now"

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You don't need to ask for it.

If hooking up/making out, go caveman kissing and then lift your chin quickly, she'll start kissing your neck as an automated reaction. This should start the downward ladder towards your pants. Just gently guide her there.

Right Klaxon, So far this thread has come. I get that a simple gesture will work. Never really ask.. Unless you have to. Then it is "kiss it" I used to say "suck it baby" and she would roll her eyes at me. I am not saying that anymore. haha

Currently I am having trouble with getting head from a HB8. I wonder what is her issue. I gave her head and I tease her a lot. I give her some of my best foreplay and sex. I just think she is one of those girls that are strange about it. We have been having sex on the regular for the last month or so. Anyone ever get a girl who would not blow them? Whats the secret path here??

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There are some weird girls out that just don't suck dick, don't sweat it and get a new one. Unless you think you can train her and want to.

I think this could be where her doubt lies - and that's that she is unsure of her status in your life.

If you've been having sex a lot, and you've been giving it to her, then the only real reason is to talk it over.

I ran into this EXACT issue with my ex girlfriend, until one night I asked her outright why she didn't. Turns out there was nothing she enjoyed about it (apparently). A week later she was going down on me every night.

The reason why this was is because she might feel uneasy about where she stands. You should talk to her about it and be upfront - don't act angry (AFC mistake), just ask. If you have the confidence to ask, she will have the confidence to answer.

When she is giving me hand and I make no reactions to this and tell her : I think you will do it alot better with your lips and mouth. Worked for me

Yeah I have asked her in nearly every way a man can think. "Suck it baby" "You have nice lips, I want them around my cock" "My dick tastes like strawberry's try some" and then the simple gesture. She thought the gesture was cute and clever but did not do it. I joke and say she is orally challenged. She knows I want it when she says some things. "What would you like" "anything you need" I used to say stuff like "Yeah head" then frustrated to the max "Suck my dick" Nothing seems to be the correct way to do this. haha. I would love to teach her.

I will have a talk with her next time we are together and before we get into sexy time. I remember something Chris Rock said: "Their are three types of women in this regard. Women who don't suck dick. BOOOO; Women who suck just enough dick to shut you up. And my favorite, WOMEN WHO LOVE TO SUCK A DICK. yeahhhhh. You make the world go around!" Haha

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