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Im shocked at how loads of people are saying what would drive you to fuck 800 women
Personally i would love to fuck 800 women in my lifetime im currently on around 70-100 at 23. Although since iv got into pua my numbers have slowed down but the quality of girl increased.
My problem with girls is im petrified of sleeping with girls sober espically the first time i dont want to esculate for fear of shooting my load on entry, Iv never had a proper gf only 2 in my afc days which well you couldnt call a realtionship.
Any date must involve drink at night time when im drunk i get really good compliments about my bedroom skills.
Is there anythin i can do inner game to stop it.
Its making my life less great than it already is
There is nothing wrong with having some drinks to loosen the mood, it works well for the women as well. This is a method I have often used. As far as the premature fear, there is several things you can do to eliminate this issue.
Rubbing one out just before you hook up always helps, if you are about to bust during sex, simply change positions, this is an effective way to keep the eruption down. When I was younger I had this very same issue, I would be so overworked with anticipation, a few pumps in and I was ready to explode.
There is several things you can do to stop yourself, but I found the most effective for me was, stopping and switching positions, it allowed me time to let the "lava" go back down the volcano as well as make the sex more interesting by continuously switching positions. Being a two pump chump can have it's advantages when you are young. If you use the switching technique to slow it down, you can learn a lot about what positions women like and what you like the best.
Just remember there is a very fine line of no return, you must learn exactly where it is and only pass the line when you think its time. You can practice finding this line during masterbation. When you are about to blow, stop! wait for the sensation to go down, then start up again. As you progress, pretty soon you will know exactly where that "fine line" is.
Also you can try to make a masterbation session last long, like 10-15 minutes, if you can do this consistently, I guarantee you will last longer with the ladies.