I had no expectations of this working, I just thought "What the hell..lets see how it goes"

So I sent this 42 year old woman a message that said
Me: I'll be honest and just come out and say it. I'm looking for an older woman for casual hookups..You can take a look at my profile and have a chat with me if interested

2 days later she replied: "Fuck NO."


I thought it was funny..


But on a more serious note, what is a good way of going about getting an older woman on one of these dating sites? I'm in my early 20's..and for some reason always wanted to bang a cougar lol

dude hooking up with cougars is easy i could do it no problem before i found out about this stuff.

Just go to any either country bar/club or a pub thats more on the greasy side, take a buddy or 2 have some drinks, wait till midnight when the ol' broads are good and liquored and take um home. they crave the attension of younger guys. just imagine if you were 40 and had some 20 yr old chick trying to take ya home.

But be careful tho my one buddy got his shit kicked by a husband the next day and lost all his cloths. but good luck!

Not a bad idea, really. There is only a handful of bars around where I live..but every one in a while there are nights where the older crowd is attracted there.

But I sent a message to another older woman, so far its gone like this:

ME: Let me be honest..I'm a 24 year old, single, white male from the____ area.. and I'm looking for an older woman for casual hookups. You can take a look at my profile and if you're interested, lets have a chat!

HER: Let's take a look at a pic. And what is with 24 yo wanting to hook up with older women?


ME: Well..I don't really have a great answer for that lol You only live once, and I'm just trying to get everything I want out of life. Casual hookups with an attractive, older woman is one of those things. I don't know how else to answer that except honestly lol

HER: I appreciate honesty, refreshing. Casual hookups might be something I'm interested in.



This could get interesting...I'll keep it updated!

This lady is definitely interested...I noticed she keeps looking at my profile lol

Im parting ways with a gf, age 51 but nice everythi.g, even perky real breasts. She looks good, 5 6" @ 134, thats good shape you younger guys, just wait till you get to be my age.

We are just fuck buddies now till she finds someone else. She told me about a younger guy who contacted her on pof. She seemed interested and answered back but then did a dumb thi.g and gave him ber number.

He sent a xxx pic, end of story, she blocked him on her cell and thats it. If he had played it cool he might have gotten in her pants and she DOES have a nice tight ass.

So my advice is to dont get your panties in a bunch and dont push things. This gal is not a find her in a bar drunk type, is smart, educated, good job, nice tight everythk.g. He blew it.I

Your friend could have had it made lol

He was stupid to do that stuff though.

Personally, I'm past the whole sending pics thing..I don't even think I ever went thru that stage..Maybe once with my ex girlfriend, but thats all. Point is, I messaged the lady back, told her the 3 things I expect in any type of relationship is honesty, trust, and respect...and as long as those 3 things are present, things will go well. She has never been approached in the way I approached her, so I told her not to feel weird or anything because we're both adults, we both enjoy sex, and we both like new experiences and to live life to the fullest...so if it is something she is really interested in, to contact me...then I told her I look forward to more chats, and that was it.

Then I noticed when I checked the site this morning, she had checked out my profile a few more times right before I signed on lol...So I think she's really interested, but somewhat hesitant..which is fine. If I don't hear from her within the next week or so, I'll message her again to see how she is doing.

ME: Let me be honest..I'm a 24 year old, single, white male from the____ area.. and I'm looking for an older woman for casual hookups. You can take a look at my profile and if you're interested, lets have a chat!
HER: Let's take a look at a pic. And what is with 24 yo wanting to hook up with older women?
ME: Well..I don't really have a great answer for that lol You only live once, and I'm just trying to get everything I want out of life. Casual hookups with an attractive, older woman is one of those things. I don't know how else to answer that except honestly lol
HER: I appreciate honesty, refreshing. Casual hookups might be something I'm interested in.
ME: Honesty, trust, and respect are the 3 main things I expect in ANY type of relationship.

I get the impression that you haven't been approached like this before? By the way you asked "what is with a 24 yo wanting to hook up with older women?"

I don't want you to feel weird or anything about our age difference. Sex is fun. We both enjoy it. It'd be a new and fun experience for both of us ya know..
As long as we're on the same page. So if you decide you'd really be interested in the same just send me a message.

I look forward to further chats with you

Talk to you soon, honey.




That was the last we chatted until tonight....I've noticed that the past few days she has viewed my profile everyday, multiple times....So I called her out on it.


Me: I see that since we last had a chat, we've been having ourselves a small game of profile tag :p

How are you feeling?
HER: Lol, your right. Feeling a little rough, went out with friends last night
ME: Aww...So did I!! But I feel great lol Is there anything I can do to make you feel better?
HER: You can rub my feet and legs, dancing for 5 hours in heels is hard on the body. Lol
ME: Well its been so long since I've wore heels and danced, I'm not sure I can relate anymore
But....I do like to give and receive massages..lucky you, my specialty is a foot massage. I guess I can throw in a leg massage as well, but don't take it personally if I happen to nibble your thighs a little bit
Her: I think it would be ok, I'm very good at foot messages also
Me: That's great, I love a good foot massage...and an oral massage. Do you like oral massages?
HER: who doesnt
Me: lol just making sure you're not one of those girls that like to receive and not give!!
HER: I like both
Me: Good..I assume since you like, you swallow?
HER: Well duhh
ME: That's good, I've been trying some new diet tricks that are supposed to make it taste better, would love to get your opinion :p


Still waiting for a reply

The lady who originally replied "Fuck NO." has just been caught looking at my profile again a couple times...The older ladies seem like they're really interested deep down..but are hesitant to accept it lol

You're better off joining a pay based site like Cougar Life, if you want older female fuck buddies, than use a free site.

tell her to take out the "no", but keep the "fuck" and she'll have the right idea.

Me:
"Let me be honest..I'm a 20 year old, single, white male from the Manchester area.. and
I'm looking for an older woman for casual hookups. You can take a look at my profile
and if you're interested, lets have a chat!"


Her:
"As you've started out with the honesty, let's continue.
I'm a 38 year old single woman living in South Manchester browsing
through this website. There may be an opportunity for you to find the
older woman you want in me, but first, answer me this:

Why do you want an older woman?"


Me:
"First of all I like that you are honest with me i like that quality in
people.

So I'm on this stage at my life when I'm focused on my development and
I'm not interested in relationships as they demand too much. I'm don't
want girls my age cause they are inexperienced and I'd like to be with
someone who I can learn something from not only give away if you get
what i mean."

still waiting for reply i guess i've not been honest enough for her

Maybe she wanted "I guess i've just got a place in my heart for older women. Well... maybe not my heart exactly, but you get the idea "

PG-13 way of saying "I have a fetish, babe."

Eckhart Toll is this the author of this book ?

Well that's random. Eckhart Tolle wrote The Power of Now and A New Earth, two of the best books I have ever read.

fuck bro im in this exact same situation...sort of. But now i have her number and i dont know what to do?!?!?!?! lol ive gamed her so far, and now were trading pics...thats whats gone so far..

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Hey look at that!
What?
That! You dont see it?
No not really....
Oh come on theres nothing i just wanted to talk to you. Whats your name?