Hi guys,

Sorry, if I don't use the right fancy pancy words, but I am new to this so bare with me. Anyway, I am doing the push/pull-thing with this girl using some of the great stuff from this forum, but then I run into this response.

Me: I write the "Give me 3 reasons why I should keep chatting with you, besides you being beautiful?".

Then I get this response:

"Why should I? You can just stop chatting with me, if you don't feel like it ?"

Any suggestions for a good response and does her response mean that I am being too negative in my push/pull comment?

Cheers

Same old new guy issue, you have not created enough emotional investment with her for the needed compliance to try to qualifier her. This really isn't push pull so your confusing your fancy pancy terms.

In Mystery terms this is putting A3 before A2

Go back and try to get more A2 and investment then come forward to qualification. I would respond " I asked you because a lot of hot girls IM/email me out of the blue, and I don't feel any connection with them -whats the point? Trying to get to know you better as it seems you could be clever"