Well I have been doing lots of reading on this site and it has helped, thanks everyone. On New Years I met this girl at a friends party, we do some talking and making out and eventually she has to go home with her friend. I get her number and 2 days ago she texts me that we should hang out at her place. I go over and we watch a movie and eventually get into heavy making out in her bed, but that is as far as it went. I tried but everytime I would put my hands lower she would just laugh and say watch it mister...(she has told me she has not had sex in the last 5 months since she broke up with her bf) Which I was fine with and we kept making out until I went home.

Well yesterday she texts me again and says we should grab a bit to eat, so we did and we end up going back to her place again. We grab some liquor and head over there. We were just hanging out drinking and eventually start making out and go to watch a movie in her room. She gets on top of me and starts grinding on me with my clothes on and then I do the same. She says she wants to have sex, but shouldn't... I say thats fine and eventually it leads to clothes coming off and she says she wants me to. So were going at it for a few minutes and she just stops, gets up and goes and locks herself in the bathroom and takes a shower....(I think she was crying). I don't know what the hell happened, I waited around until she got out and we talked, but she was just being very short with everything. After that I just put my clothes on and went home. (she said she though we have a connection, and she was not looking for anything serious. And she knows I am leaving the country for work in a month, and does not want a one night stand.)

Does anyone have any idea what that would be all about?

Sex is a very emotional thing for both men and women.


If she got out of a relationship and hasn't had sex in 5 months she is probably dealing with that and doesn't want more emotional distress.


I personally understand where she is coming from, but do not know how to handle it. This seems to be a big thing when I get LMR it is usually from a girl who just went through a bad break up or had been cheated on.

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