my gf recently split up with me because of other people got involved and casued problems yet we still are talking and she wants to meet me? and today she told me she wants to go on holiday with me ??

I still really like her!

what does this mean heellpp!!

It means this girl is a bit of a user. If she truly wanted you she wouldn't have her opinion clouded by others. Seek others. There is always a better girl

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i would use her, just have fun togheter and take that holiday, but play hard to get,
improve youre skills by using youre gf

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i said it once and ill say it again girls LOVE getting "wifed up" during the holidays. They see all their friends hibernating from going out/partying much and heading into relationships in time for holiday presents. Don't fall for it, meet up, chat and resolve some issues but don't be a sucker.

thats the strange thing im a footballer and have alot of money and things to give her but she doesnt want them :/
she split with me because of everybody on her case and then says i wanna book a holiday and want you to come with me?

I said "why you want me to go? you know i will just end up fucking you"

and she said "i just do we are still friends and yes that is fine we can fuck aslong as you dont bring anyone else back to our room?"

what is she trying to tell me?

She wants action and wants to feel needed. Come holiday time, women don't want to be alone, they want to feel like they have someone to be with. Maybe she wants to be with you and she's willing to have sex for "compensation" ?

It means she doesn't want to be alone for the holidays and only wants to use you for a few days. Once Christmas and New Years is over, she'll leave your ass again.

If it were me, I wouldn't even give her the time of day seeing the reason why she left you.
She's trying to tell you she'll put out for you taking the bait and spending time with her on the holidays. If you're thinking of biting, here's where you do the nastiest grimiest sex acts you can possibly think of to her. Then when you're done, kick her ass out and tell her you have another girl coming over.

Personally I wouldn't go at all. Who's to say she isn't lying about the sex and once you get there, you get none and are stuck there like her little puppy. If it were me I'd tell I'm busy and let her go alone. Then you start fucking some other girls and get rid of this oneitis

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nailed it! if you find yourself in a situation where you are stressing about whether the girl have an alternative motive or if it will bite you in the ass, chances are shes not worth it. there are so many girls out there, spend your time focused on them. oneitis is a hell of a condition

It depends where you'd be going imo. If it's somewhere where it's just the two of you I wouldn't go because if she turns into a bitch there's no escape. If it's somewhere where there will be some single girls you can hit on or whatever then even if she turns into a bitch you can get some game on.

Just be sure to be the one that leaves her after the trip and be clear on it. You don't wanna date this girl if she's so impressionable but if you ditch her first she'll probably call you to hook up afterwards and sex is good right?