Each to their own, I know.. but I am interested to know what sort of warning signs you look out for or qualities in a girl that are the difference between shag and date.

also, would you ever date a girl who 'looked' and gave IOI's at you whilst with her boyfriend?..
Does it worry you that the same would happen to you if you dated her?

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here to learn.. thats all.

Look for inner beauty, intellegence and healthy oppinions.

Like in my first relationship, during first two weeks, she was so crazy about me that it didn't matter what I said or done.

But later, I have found out that she doesn't really have healthy opinions about certain things..

Good luck!

Galaxy

i like all sorts of different people.

i honestly tend to judge women on their character more than their personality.

variety is the spice of life.

but three things that i avoid like the plague in a woman:

- dishonesty
- immaturity
- self-centeredness

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

I look for one that is not:

- drama queen
- whorish
- too much into herself
- too serious about herself
- dumb
- boring
- retarded
- lesbian (but I would hook up with one if she wanted to bring her gf over)

This has to meet with qualities I look for:

- beautiful
- sincere

She has to meet all criteria from the first group in order to become a target for me. I can overlook her being boring OR dumb PLUS lesbian if it's just one night stand. Other traits in that group disgust me too much even for that. I can also forget about sincerity if it's for one night. Beauty is a must, I am really picky. I look for not-so-common beauty though, so no blonde generic models for me.

If she wants to become a LTR prospect, that's a whole different world. She needs to meet all the criteria listed above.

Mom always said that it's important that she comes from a good family. Not rich, but a family with values.

I guess MOST good girls come from good families, while SOME "bad" girls come from good families as well.

loyalty

let me know if you find that.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

do not look just to the beauty but you have to look first of what she is in inside and outside look then you can sense that she is a girl for you.

Is loyalty really that rare?

If you're at college like me, then HELL YES. Basically everyone is fucking everyone.

30+ years on this earth.

two people have been loyal to me.

1. my good friend from highschool, like a brother
2. my actual brother

notice who ISN'T on that list?

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

i go for girls that i feel are better than me.