| Girlfriend:
Solid HB8, would be a 9 or 10 if she had a better rack. Great personality, always upbeat and has this aura about her that causes other girls to stop her in the street and tell her how beautiful she it (it seriously happens a lot and I’ve never experienced this with any other girl I’ve been with).
Situation:
I live in LA and she moved down here in October from Portland, OR to be with me. We met in June through a mutual friend and started dating in August after a few weekends of her visiting here or me visiting there.
In the beginning, shit was awesome. Sometimes we had sex 5 times a day. She can come so easily and each one is as good as the last. I would try to get her off 2 or 3 times before I came, then somehow it only took a couple hours before I was ready to go again. It’s been the most amazing sex of my life. After she moved in, we got into a routine. The base I’m stationed at is a 1hr 15min drive so I’d leave for work super early before she got up. When I’d get home, she’d be making dinner (fantastic cook), we’d eat, talk, maybe watch some tv, go do something, then have sex and go to bed. Even the sex began to get routine and boring.
Problem & how I’ve attempted to fix it:
I was starting to think about how to change things up when she dropped a bomb on me: she wants to move back to Portland. She was depressed and homesick. I tried to tell her things weren’t that bad and we could fix things. I spent the next week trying to cheer her up and going to do fun things. I bought her flowers, took her out to dinner, and tried to reassure her that she could be happy outside of Portland, which she loves dearly. We spent a week apart at Christmas as we each went to see our family. I didn’t get a single text or phone call from her. When she came to pick me up from the airport, I was pissed. I didn’t speak more than a few words to her until the next day. Then I lost my cool and blew up at how she wouldn’t give me any feedback as to where she stands, even though I knew through our mutual friend she still plans on moving back to Portland. We haven’t had sex since November, she told me firmly the she’s going back to Portland as soon as she can, and she tries to avoid me even tough we live together.
Finally:
I want to keep this girl, but I’ve AFC’d the shit out of this situation. I fear it’s gone past the point of no return. Normally, I’d create some distance, make her miss me, then try and get her back. I just don’t have that option this time. If she moves back, that’s definitely the end of it. As an additional time constraint, she’s flying up there this weekend for her birthday and to hunt for apartments. I know she’ll probably hookup with some other guy too.
Is there ANY WAY to get her back?
Thanks in advance.
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