Ok I need some advice I'm a little confused. Me and my gf of a year and a half broke up on New Years night. I saw her make out with another guy. I flipped out threw her shit on the street and packed my stuff that night (I was a little tired the next day lol). But the thing that confuses me is even after my flip out I'm not really upset. I almost saw this coming, I could tell she was bored and I lacked status and wealth. You see I made the dreaded mistake of learning game and dropping it once I got into a LTR. So for all you up and comers: game isn't a one night stand, you don't hit it and quite it, or you'll regret it. Since about 3 months ago I've been slowly working on my skills and getting back up to pace. So am I not upset because of Pickup? Has anyone else experienced this? And now that I'm single what kind of relationship should I try and create? I'm really not a player at all I enjoy intimacy. I was thinking last night I want to be a lover like a Casanova. Love is just so incredible I can't wait to feel it again. But there's my other question is that normal? Like I think about the experiences me and this girl shared and now instead of feeling sad I feel excited. Cuz I think "omg I can't wait to feel that again!" I donno I'm really confused all my friends and family are too. Does anyone on here know of someone who's had MLTR's? I think that's what I want but I need someone with experience to fill me in. I feel like Pickup has totally mind fucked me. I don't feel fear or insecurity I'm not sad about being single I'm happy. But not happy just that I can bang piles of chics I'm happy that I can have more relationships. I think what I want is to start gaming and create for myself basically a harem of girls. Have my own place and my own space but share intimate relationships with each girl and encourage them to be intimate with one another. Am I retarded or is this possible?


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I've never had MLTR's, but I have had 4 to 5 fuckbuddies at once, all in rotation. And you know, women can have meaningless sex just like we do, but they have tendency to want more, especially if you're not needy. So I had them arranging quite nice nights for us and I felt about half of them definitely wanted more. It is just my tight schedule and lack of proper game which made me unable to keep this number. Now I am at two, probably cutting them both off for sake of a monogamous LTR. I am looking for comfort too. By the way, getting a fuckbuddy is quite often a way how to get LTR later on. Just keep your poker face and don't be needy.

I am 20, probably 6/10 in looks, girls rate me 8/10 when I ask. My game makes me a rare item at the college, but that's probably because most of the guys are pathetic and lack any game at all. I guess any older guy from this forum coming from a country with better competition would kick my ass.

I got no wealth and almost no status too, but I am adventurous and I do have REALLY interesting life. I guess it is not difficult at all to bang 10+ chicks a year, if you got some game. It is one per more than a month. So if you can keep them interested, I guess you can create the harem you want to.

1. you cant rush love.
2. i believe that love is a mutual feeling.