This morning my GF sends me a txt with a gym routine. 2 minutes later she sends this txt:

mmmmm, from behind... or on the kitchen counter. It's also my favorite place to sit.


I didn't give it much thought and replied within a couple of minutes

blah blah. My kitchen counter is too tall I'm afraid.

Right after I replied I started thinking: why would she send me that txt? Out of the blue? Could she have sent it by mistake thinking she was responding to another person, considering they were one right after the other?

She then replies: "Perfect! I could get a triceps workout out of that. Think about it, u can stand, and I can hold some of my weight with my arms and face you. Would I have anything to support more weight with my feet across the room? Sounds technical, but the way I see it, it could be quite memorable"

I didn't reply, then she asked me if I wanted to go to the supermarket later on.

She has an Iphone, btw. One time she sent a txt by mistake, then said, "oops, that wasn't meant for you. You and xxx txted at the same time."

What do you guys think? How should I proceed? Am I being paranoid? Should I confront her?

Arent you the guy that is a sex god, and make woman shiver when they hear your name?

How can you even think for a minute she is cheating on god like you?


But yes confront her... tell her " you sent me some weird txts you better check if the correct person received , I dont want him to think that you forgot about him and you are ignoring him."

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

it is impossible for a woman to cheat if you properly lick her asshole

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Women are all crazy. Specially the women thaqt I'm attracted to, which seem to be more problematic than the rest.
Actually, Mack, this is not true. The only other woman whose asshole I've licked ended up cheating on me.

I did what SnakeDr said, and sent her a txt. She replied "What????"

Then she called, and I ignored her. She called again about an hour later, and I didn't pick up.

Seriously, guys, what do you guys think? Last night we went to the movies, and we were holding hands, etc. Everything seems to be going great.

But that txt message out of the blue... it definitely wasn't meant to be for me, am I right?

"mmmmm, from behind... or on the kitchen counter. It's also my favorite place to sit."

That's a txt you send to reply to someone who is asking how would you rather like it. Am I right?[/code]

pryor,

honestly, it does sound like you've busted her.

the last one i was with did that very same thing.

that text was likely meant for someone else that she is/was talking sexual with.

gotta love triflin' ass hoes.....

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

I would bring it up in a creative way, such as: "Hey, I was thinking about that thing you texted me earlier. I'm pretty excited and I've got some ideas of my own." Gauge her reaction. If she knows exactly what you're talking about and doesn't miss a beat, you don't have a problem.

Any tips on how to proceed Mack?

I was thinking that when she calls me later today I would tell her that I'm going to give her one chance to be honest and explain what the txt was about. If she says "it was meant for you" I would tell her "I don't believe you, never call me again."

But lets be honest, why would she tell me the "truth", if the truth was that it was meant for another guy?

"If a woman has an incentive to lie, she will pick lying over telling the truth EVERY TIME"

I already gaged her reaction when I was dumb enough not to notice the txt and sent her a txt saying my kitchen counter was too high. Reread the first post.

Gotcha. I would say confront her, but that's a lose-lose proposition. Either you're right and she admits she was texting another dude, or she denies it and you still don't know whether to believe her. You may think it immoral, but maybe checking her phone is an option. It's not a practice I normally condone since it can lead to getting jealous for no good reason and will destroy your relationship if you get caught. On the other hand, it could keep you from creating a scene if there was nothing to it in the first place.

Actually, if I got her to admit she was txting another dude, it would be a win situation. In that case, I wouldn't need to keep dating a filthy whore who's capable of banging two dudes at the same time.
It's not a practice I condone either, but in this case it may be justified.

It's very funny because yesterday she got out of the car for a couple of minutes and left her phone behind, and I thought about checking it but thought "why would I need to do that? I'm fucking her brains out, I'm a catch, I'm confident, I make money." I didn't check it.

I worry that she may have deleted the conversation, and if I end up checking it, nothing will be there.

And if I end up checking it, it would be with her permission, saying something like "listen, I hate to do this because it's not my MO, but right now I don't trust you, so if you have nothing to hide, gimme your phone so I can check it".
So you think there's a possibility that she could've sent this txt:

"mmmmm, from behind... or on the kitchen counter. It's also my favorite place to sit."

to me? Like something she was thinking at the moment and just expressed it?

We've never done it on the kitchen counter FWIW.

Here's the thing. If you ask her to see her phone, she will get pissed and may not let you see it, even if she wasn't cheating on you. You would still be left with the same conundrum wondering if she didn't let you see it because she knows you'll find the message, or because she regards it as an invasion of her privacy.

Even worse, she lets you see her phone but the messages have been deleted. Then she's called your bluff and you look like a fool. If you're going to check it, doing it without her knowing is the only way.

But overall, yeah. From what you've told us so far it sounds like she meant that message to go to another guy. Sorry bro.

I thought about this. There's also the chance she erased it thinking I will ask to see her phone. And when I check her phone without her knowing, there might not be anything there either.

I think the only way to be sure is to tell her to call AT&T and ask them which numbers texted her/she texted between the hour when I got the weird txt.

Because, if her txt was in fact meant for someone else, then she eventually sent it to that person.

I may not be able to read what exactly was written, but the number of the person will be enough information for me to decide.

If she refuses to do this, then I dump her, as simple as that. She sent a sketchy txt, now she's got to live with the consequences.
Here's where we differ. If it was meant for another guy, I'd be thankful, not sorry, that I caught the bitch. I would turn off the switch in the blink of an eye, and like that, no more feelings towards her.

I assumed you still had an emotional attachment. In that case, yeah, problem solved. Post back when you get your answer. I'm curious to know how things turn out.

yes

she will

you've busted her, richard.

she sent you a sexual text entirely out of context.

you know it.

she knows it.

the only thing that is going to happen when/if you bring it up is:

- projection (you are the problem, not her)
- denial (it's your imagination, other texts didn't come through to put it in context)
- diversion (self-explanatory)

there are about ten different forms of dishonesty.

those are three there.

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Thanks for putting me in the right frame of mind, Mack.

She sent another txt a while ago, and I called her. I have some things of hers, and she has some things of mine. She said she was coming over so we could exchange.

I plan on confronting her. If she doesn't agree to call AT&T customer service to see who she was texting/who was texting her at 10am, then I will assume she cheated on me and dump her.

If she is innocent, and cares about me/this relationship, even though she may think it's an invasion of her privacy, she will agree to it.

If I call customer service, and I don't see anything suspicious, I will apologize once and that will be the end of it.

Nevertheless, the right frame of mind I should have before talking to her is to assume she is in fact cheating.

But man, if she is, she has got to be the sickest bitch who has ever lived. I can't begin to explain you how hard I've been fucking this whore. How hard she comes. How much higher on the food chain I am compared to her. It's like "I'm the best thing that has ever happened to you x 10", and not in a beta sort of way, cause like I said, I fuck her like the whore she is.