So there's this girl I met a party, mad hot. I mean, think the woman of ya dreams? and This is mine. AT the party she's all over me, followed me wherever I went, told me she missed me just when I went out to get drinks, talked about how we would be perfect in a relationship, and dragged me out to walk her to her car. (Mind you this is a christmas party) She gives me her number, and says "Keep me company, I'm gonna go on a road trip and could use someone to talk to."

So the next day on her trip I wait, see if she's willing to hit me up first. She doesn't, BUT she does text a guy friend of ours (mutual) saying "Tell him I said hey [[:"
( i was knocked out by the time) and the rest of the messages between him and her was her begging him to wake me up just to talk to her.

So i finally get up, get the news , and hit her up with a "hey"

3 hours later she responds. "Omg heyy [: sorryyy I didn't see your message!"
I made some talk, asked her what shes been up to so far on her vacay, etc etc, and she answers at about 14 minute intervals. So i tell her
"Haha aight, well imma drop this convo, ill ttyl"

she: Whyyy? nooo ]: (2 hours later!)
Me: haha when a girl responds every 14 minutes, she either thinks the boys creepy, boring, or she's just plain busy. Imma put my money that its the third one
she: Oh gosh no way you are not creepy or boring im just shopping right now [:
Me: its all good babee, so whatchu get? any lingerie for me?
*Doesnt respond till next morning* : Heyy sorry just got your message
- i dont respond-
she: you realy suck you know that!!! [:
me: Lol i mean, that's your job aint it?

*NO RESPONSE FOR ANOTHER DAY LOL*

me: Happy new years to everyone in my phonebook, ayybody but kelsey that is (her obviously)
her: hahaha you are so mean to me!! bully [: You too!
me: Ohh, so now she textin back huh?

NO REPLY FOR HOURS

Now, her facebook status says "Its about to be a new year if there is anything you want to tell me or anything you want to ask inbox me "

Now then, what words can I say? To get in on this? Cause I know its a long reel, but danm do i want it.

"me: Ohh, so now she textin back huh?"

To me that seems a little needy. It seems as if you care whether she replies or not which you need to show her that you don't.

What I think you should do is, send her a message using an opener. Something that will engage her in a conversation. Don't make any reference to her status because that is a clear cry for attention and if you give her that, you're no better than the AFC's who inbox her.

Once you have engaged her with an opener, Ring her the second she replies to you. and say "thought this would be easier over then phone" then continue with your opener and dictate your shit man

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ah i see, I didn't think of it as a needy thing! Thanks for the tip man, good stuff

The whole text game you ran was needy and extremely beta.
Honestly Im not trying to bust your balls but who counts the minutes it takes a girl to text him back? Someone who has nothing else going on. (Maybe thats not you but thats what you have conveyed to HB) And the fact that you told her 14 minutes and gave her an ultimatum about it is not good at all.
Let her go and learn from your mistakes man. IMO you dug your hole too deep to climb out. And next time when youre texting a girl, fuck when she texts back. You text her back when you can and shel do the same. Show her you have a busy and important life too