It was a Thursday night, I was about to enter the nightclub when I suddenly realize it was going to be a great night.

I stood next to the bar chatting with some girls as my night rolled, actually it was about to end, when unexpectedly a tall brunette appeared... stunning. I recognized her, she is the cousin of a friend (douchebag), we chatted for less than 3 minutes and I had to go and since we chat for so little time I wasn't able to close.

Days went by and I thought to myself, I will see her again, soon.

Oh boy... weeks went by and I only saw her once when she was in her way out and we just said Hi.

[No problem man, get her Blackberry Messenger and you will be fine] After asking to some key persons no one had it.

I waited for her to come online in facebook to ask for it... nothing.

I hope by now you can realize this patron... Wait, Wait, Wait, Wait.

Everybody tend to have this same conduct: Waiting for the perfect moment, Trying the safe way, always in your comfort zone and that's when I realize ultimately everyone (AFC to PUA) will wait for this 'things to happen' so you don't get exposed.

So after 2 months, YES 2 MONTHS, I finally man up and ask her through an offline Facebook message to give me her PIN.

And so here I'm sending her the first message, maybe it won't work, maybe she won't answer... but at least I tried.

I'm sick of seeing all of us waiting for the perfect moment, waiting for the things to happen.

Lets man up and risk everything, because at the end it comes down to this:

“It is a risk to love.
But what if it doesn't work out?
Ah, but what if it does. ”
― Peter McWilliams


-> After 15 mins. She answered the first message...

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Thank you for sharing xfman, Yeah if you wait for long and nothing will ever happen.

This kind of situation happened to me alot of times already, sometimes i am just tired of being patient and waiting for nothing. You still got nothing to lose, you still got those next chicks waiting in line for you.


Lesson i learned is nothing will ever happen if you will not make a move.



-TheNaturalPlayboy

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Sometimes when i'm with my chick on the low, I'm a flirt.

I think you're 100% right. Sometimes you just have to do what you want to do, otherwise you will think about it too much and you will start to find reasons why it may be better not to do it. Sometimes it will work out great, sometimes it won't. That's life.

Tell us how she responded to your message and what followed...

Greets, Jakely

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-"We can't choose what cards we get, but we can change the way we play them." Randy Pausch

That's definitely my biggest issue at the moment when trying to number close girls from class but I never have that issue when I go out.

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- Cesario

Guilty as charged. Looking back at my days of obnoxious abundance, I realize that then I simply acted. No thinking, no planning, no waiting. I was in the moment, I did whatever came to mind immediately. And the kicker about acting upon the least opportune moment: you get rewarded for showing balls and being spontaneous. Remember, for instance, the bar scene in Hitch. Probably the least opportune moment for Hitch to walk up, yet by simply doing it and going with the situation he got immediate credit. Think guy number 1 could have peaked her interest, no matter how clever his opener and how perfect the moment?

You will miss 100% of the shoots you don't fire.

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Eat, Sleep, PLAY

Good point.

I'm doing this mental rehearsal daily whenever I find myself in situation when I avoid doing something (mostly because of fear).

I say to myself I FEEL FEAR = I JUMP IN.

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I have to return some videotapes...

Everytime i waited for the "right moment" Something always ended up going wrong. Like she would get a boyfriend at the last minute, i think that when you start thinking to much about something is when you should act upon it immediately.