My girlfriend is more popular, smarter and wittier than me.OUCH that hurt, but its true.She is a good looking girl, she could easily find another guy and she gets alot of attention from other guys.
At the moment i'm investing more into her then she is to me.I know this is wrong.I know also for a fact that i'm way too nice to her.Just whenever im not nice and i call her up on things she just says Fine and acts likes shes not bothered and then ill get a text later and she be out clubbing which gets me paranoid cause if she's pissed off at me and she has other guys approaching her, what then?

Im a good looking guy, but my inner game at the moment is shit..i feel like i think twice about what to say when i'm with her and i even hate texting cause i feel like i come across as boring so i usually just ring her.But when i ring her it me doing 99% of the talking and coming up with the conversations, actually this is true most of the time..even when out if i don't talk she will say nothing and its an awkward silence.Shes far from shy though, when her mates are around shes the life and soul of the party...

The reason I think she's staying with me is because lookwise i'm her type and im nice to her, i make her feel good about herself and cared for..i just feel like we have no connecion together or just don't click yet...she is actually a cool girl, i like her and i know she does like me

just im afraid to act like less invested because she has more social value than me at the the moment

Make her jealous, she'll definitely go bonkers. Just approach people and be the social animal, as you're accompanied by your girlfriend there will be no reason AA, you're not trying to get laid.

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She does get jealous when i'm around other girl but likewise i get jealous when she's around other guys.She has guys approaching her and has other options so i feel like she might just leave if i keep trying to make her jealous.

I know this sounds like a fucked up relationship but i really want it to work.

How long have u2 been going out? How is sex? Do you fuck her hard and good? Does she come? Do you tell her she's a whore when you fuck her? Do you lick her asshole? How old r u guys?

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Richard = troll

Making her jealous and/or freezing her out will do nothing for you but push her away. How would your old man take care of this situation? Do something romantic for her. Show her that you guys really do have a connection. Fuck all this afc shit and tactics on what you should do to make her like you more, you're in a relationship. Do it old school, women love romance, and also do it for yourself. There will always be awkwardness in every relationship you get into... some more uncomfortable than others.. but you can never go wrong with a spice of genuine romance to spark up what was once there.

Richards answer for everything = lick asshole

Here is your answer. You have more fear of losing her than she losing you. And this is bad.

My advice is find a hobby.

Try to be a more interesting person. More unavaible guy. Because you are too needy at this point.


Stop trying to make her jealouys, because you are only doing that do affect her, and woman are really good seeing through that, it only convey to her, you are veyr insecure.


That club thing only demonstrate how immaturity she is , you probably guys have 16- 19. And that her way of fucking with your head. She doesnt act angry or even demonstrates but goes to the club in hopes to manipulate you, so you think she would cheat. DONT SHOW THAT YOU ARE AFFECTED BY THIS , this her manipulating you so you could be a good doggy doing what she wants it.

And realize, that you dont have to be jealousy because if she wants to cheat she will do it. AND THERE NOTHING YOU CAN DO IT. The more you controlled it ,or the more acted like a kid, she will lose your respect even quicker.

Understand that is normal that you feel like that, but it is your choice to controlled and not show you are affected by her.
This is so wrong. this only show how need you are. Go find something better to do. If you are 99% talking I would reduce the number of calls. its means you are boring her.


Stop thinking why she is with you. It only matters that she is with you. accept this. Move on, and try to have fun, that why you are in relantioship

Try and read something about inner game. It will help you alot.

I would advice to read "How to handle shit tests in relantioship by hakuna" really good stuff.

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