So I'm a 21 year old kid from Belgium. I don't really know how I got into the game, I just got here randomly by Google, but i'm really interested. Not because I disrespect women, but just because it seems I'm not really as good with them as I used to be when I was even younger. I just (read 9 months) came out of a relationship which lasted 4 years. It seems that really made my way of interaction with women like... bad.. I didn't flirt with anyone in that 4 years (I thought I was just being a good bf). Now I'm not really looking for a new long term relationship, not at least for 5 years or I have to fall madly in love. I'm still young and I wanna act like it. So I wanna like have some 1 night stands and such. Meet women, have fun with them. So that's basically my goal. My free time I mostly spend at the gym (not like I've got an athletic body or so (yet)) or at the local pub (but like almost no women come there). Now what I really want to ask is, is there someone who could guide me in a way where I could start? 'cause there's so much information here I really don't know how to start, and how do you guys memorize all this? Anyways, thanks for reading this. I hope I can one day be a valuable member to this society.

Greets Jimmy


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Also, which movies would u recommend me watching? thx in advance

As far as your game goes you need to work on inner game (self-image) and outer game(techniques) and practice in the field, all together, to have the most success in the shortest amount of time.

For inner game read anything by David De'angelo
for outer game Magic Bullets, Mystery method, Swinggcatt or others

90% of the material out there is all the same and pretty good.

k thanks man, it's not really that I'm afraid of approaching women it's just that I don't know how to take it further than just a nice chat.

You'll find all the stuff you need on this forum, but tbh, it's just a matter of confidence (main cause). You should be able to take it further without any problems or hesitation after you just test out stuff on the field.

Thanks for the feedback. I did indeed find alot of very cool stuff allready on this forum. seems like I allways went in as a "needy" guy and should be a bit cooler and keep expectations open. I'm gonna read/watch/listen to some stuff. this is really cool. Can't wait to try it out.