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Dr. Mooney
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You said to text her..above, was my reply.
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How do I make her to start up conversations with me. Ussually I am the initator to make conversations, plans etc etc, but I'd like her to text me or message me on fb 1st. I have asked why she dosen't do that and that conversation never goes well. I have tried to not message her for a day or two, but then next question from her is, why don't you talk to me and those conversations dosen't end up well either.
tell her to shut the fuck up .. otherwise she would keep doing this bullshit...

woman and emotions... don't analyze it .. it's useless...

she is just a insecure needy approval seeking woman.. she doesn't give attention or value, she only wants other people to give shit to her..

again tell her to shut the fuck up.. or just don't contacts her for many days.. maybe a week or 2.. think about it

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In Korea I have been told that this only happens when the relationship is really serious. I am stacking MLTR, will this girl just assume we are in a relationship? as she has not mentioned it and we haven't had 'the talk'
LOL HAHAHA dude .. people tell total bullshit .. do you think korean girls don't fuck scumbags behind the dumpster ? lol ... it's just some lame cultural conditioning shit.. and why the fuck are you with her anyway ? because she was a easy catch ?

do you even know how counterproductive it is to hook up with a foreign girl ? i mean you are better of with a hot native who does have a good personality.

all i can say is this .. YES

eastern people often push for marriage... im serious .. that is one big reason why i am not attracted to chinese , japanese or korean woman in general ( aside from their looks ).

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Hey lode miss your old avatar.

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Alright..so, me and a chick I dated for 2 years, meet up from time to time, because she is dtf. When we first met, I looked great. She was fond of how I looked, and she was atttacted. Not just for that only though. During our relationship, I became a fatty and blew up. Could only wear the same 5 shirts cause thats all that fit me..got stretch marks, and would never swim with pals in the summer or could never take my shirt off. Afterwhile, it took a toll..so, she went off to uni for school and everything hit the fan..so we were done. For awhile we tried to make it work, but no, it wasn't gonna happen. Too much eye candy and I was still huge. So finally I was done after being so hurt and lied to. and had totally froze her out. Also, I found this site. *thumbs up* so, from time to time, my ex gets ahold of me to meet up. When we do, it always turns into what I've done with other girls (which I play vague) and she always has to brag about who she is talking to. I always act like a cocky ass and we always end up fucking. Which is cool. Since the last time she saw me, I've gotten my shit together, and I'm starting to look great again. It's been about 3 months again sine I've last heard from her, and I'm expecting a text again somewhat in the near future. But, just the other day, I was at the mall and saw her from afar and it looked like she was with a dude. Couldnt see too well though. She was looking good though. So, should I shoot her a text soon with my new found self, or wait for her? It's just that its easy to get a lay with her, and too much effort isn't needed. I haven't uploaded any pics to my Fb because I never use it so everything of me on there is with me being 60lbs overweight. So....what do you think?
forget about her and sort out your life ... keep improving.. don't stall and don't freeze.. keep working out.. hit the field and visit some clubs or bars , meet other woman.

Why did you got comfortable when you got into a relationship with her ? good question to ask yourself..

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Im in the most retarded situation ive ever been...

See, I dumped her on dec/2010, tried to get back together on august, we KINDA got together, but she turned the tables, started to believe she was making the rules, she was on completely control(her friends were making her mind), and came this day when she posted something like this on facebook 'Despise and step upon them, that will make they love you forever'... ok I got pissed but said nothing.
Then on the end of november she broke up with me because I lost my job and didn't accept her lack of boundaries on facebook, after that, early december, she said 'I have to talk to you', so we had everything set up for the 'talk', and she flaked on me, twice, SO, I called her and said something like this: "Theres no comming back, you can live your life, I have nothing to talk to you anymore", Then I got this UNCOMFORTABLE Silence by her, for about 30s, her voice turned sad, but since then, I ve only kept LAC, since we have a kid I cant go completely NC.
Now, I avoid calling her, I call only to ask about my kid, I'm going out to parties, clubs,etc, but she aint falling for the bait, SO I THINK there's some female friends helping her Again.
Yesterday I texted her wishing a happy new year and a year without deceptions.. she called me right away, within 50 seconds, seemed pretty happy that I texted her, said that today she would call me to ask for some cds and stuff, but didnt.
So, what should I do to shift the polarity? Im feeling despised, just keep on freezing her out? Sounds like her vengeance :evil:
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Hello,

i have an open question which is not risen from a particular experience.
When i get shit tests or just jokes from my gf like when she laughs at me for something i said for example; i normally just laugh and show no signs of being affected by it.

So my question is if its the best thing to do, or maybe i should give it more importance if it becomes more often? it can feel as she can be losing respect for me.

In this same subject, when i see my girl talking with another guy in a pub or something, should i freeze her out and be a bit distant afterwards until see gets to say she is sorry for her behaviour disrespecting me? or is it better to just ignore it and when she comes back just be in a good mood like nothing wrong has happened/i didnt mind it?.


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question: breakup going on.. theres a baby involved..... we didnt argue too bad but she's the kind to take small talk as a hard deal even with family. family is involved trying to keep us apart. im not allwoed at her house by her parents.

1.she gets me to bring her something and tells me bring it in. knowing i want to see baby she gets in the shower and when i tell her to hang the baby out for me to kiss she opens the shower curtain for me to have to lean in seeing her too.

2. she decides to come to my house for the day even though it pisses her stepdad off and flirts with me the whole time. we even wrestled on the floor playing around. flirting and even touching each other erotically.

3. i tell her im gonna tie her up flirting and she says she might like it.

4. if i cut her off she will find something to text me about.


theres alot more for an overthinker but those seem major enough she wont take me back yet so i can't ask her. rule number one is never beg them to come back. so what you think she has in mind here. she told me she didnt want a relationship. then told me she couldnt cause her parents. then said she might want to date around. then said she wants to date me when she's tired of being single. all of these were said in the same conversation too like in less than five minutes hmmmmm thoughts?
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Another thing wanders around from time to time. How to deal with us being too different persons? She is highly emotsional, writing poems, reading books, trying to analyze every person and action, but biggest problem: taking all my awesome sarcasm as it was true, but when I explain myself that I don't mean it like that, then answer is: I don't know what to take in my mind and what not, so she also don't take me serious when time to time I say nice things to her. I am most of the time in happy mind-set , dosent care about big problems in world, living my life so I could have tons of fun. Also when she wants to share with me something my 1st response is laughter or smiley face, but then she thinks that I'm not taking her seriously, but I facking am. Im thinking of response to that what Ezio in Assasins Creed Revelations said: I dosen't laugh at you, but it makes my hearth so warm inside to see you talking with such passion.
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What is the frame/mindset we should have when interacting with a girlfriend?  For the different people in our lives friends, parents, bosses, teachers, co workers, we all have different mindsets and frames that we have for them when interacting.  But what is the overall mindset you should have with your girlfriend?  I have heard from some it should be just friend/best friend but I don't see this working and think it would kill sexual attraction.  I agree it should be similar to friend but how should it be different?  I have also heard it is a good frame to pretent she is your daughter and you are the protective father.  Thoughts??
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Been speaking to my ex since summer and started seeing her at xmas. I have currently been speaking to her every day for a couple of hours so really are quite close. I am at uni in Liverpool and she is from Brighton though and she said she would come up and see me. She agreed to see me this weekend about 3 weeks ago but changed her mind on friday when i asked her because her dad is celebrating his birthday then but that she definitely would come up. Normally i wouldn't mind but this girl flakes a lot even more when i was in a relationship with her. How can i get her to come up or punish her in any way, is a freeze out ok? I mainly just froze her out and haven't been speaking to her that much since she told me on friday and have just said that i'm not pissed off with her or anything etc. Also this girl is really into me! She wants a relationship with me but i have been holding it off and will continue to do that until she wants to come meet me. She won't get with any one else and wants me to do the same.
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I have a Questuon om available. Hos much available should You be Wen You are in relationships? Is it bad to not having contct with her within 2 days or more? Or i.e You shutting your mobilephone off?

Just asking.. I want to know what You have to do, to make her worried/misssing You?
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I don't suppose how you could tell me how to maintain or spark the honey moon period back off again! How I can make the relationship fun and exciting again taking her out on fun dates with out rewarding her excessively so it becomes the norm and she becomes a bitch, pussy whipping ect!

Thanks joe
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Lode......disappeared.....
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Lode......disappeared.....
Yeah :(

And Mack too it seems.
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