Am kinda confused as to the melt effective ways to turn numbers into dates from online. I can Get a number within 2 or 3 messages. What's a good gameplan?

Tell her you and your friends are doing something fun somewhere exciting and she should come out for a little bit.

This takes a lot of pressure off of her and makes it more indirect. Whether you are there with friends or not is irrelevant. she will show up feeling less nervous which will make building comfort easier.



Or just ask her out to see a movie, that seems to work fairly easily.

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A movie is a bad idea, as it takes the focus away from the two of you. Also, I think some girls may feel even more pressure pressure knowing that they are going to meet your friends too.

Just make it sound casual and informal. "Hey, I'll be downtown (or wherever) this afternoon. Wanna join me for a walk in the park and talk about (whatever fun stuff you have been discussing online)?"

Cool thanks for the tips. Any structure as in how to
Get to know someone better through texts? Do you run routines through texts?

U can have a few routines ready for text game. I usually write something funny about what we talked about on-line, like ; when u mention the new superman movie during the conversation and when u get her number and first text her say somethig like: ' hi, my name is ... but u can save me as Superman'.

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Did you try texting them and using call back humor a little after getting her number? I would just tease them through text first, have couple normal conversations, qualify and build comfort over the phone. And I agree, invite her first out when you and your friends are doing something, less pressure and fun for the both of you. I would think it would be the same way, as getting numbers through Cold Approach. But that's my opinion. Good luck bro.

I know a lot of guys follow this approach, and if it works for you, go for it, but I don't like it.


Unless you're just looking for a friend, set the tone of the relationship by having a 1-1. After having her qualify herself and having a bit of a chat, I'll ask the target what she's up to this week, and then I'll tell the target that I have a busy couple of days, but that she should entertain me on xday over drinks because its going to be one of those days.

If she says that she's busy, I'll respond with "Fine, I'll have to find someone else to entertain me then!" They usually giggle and then offer up an alternative.

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This might be obvious, but if it isn't: always text a girl with your number before calling.

Read the Ultimate Guide to Phone and Text Game. Some techniques in this book can even be used for online messaging.

After all -- online messaging (after the opener) is just like texting, but only using a different medium.

Hey guys, I’ve been doing online dating for a couple months now (very frustrating in the beginning) but with some experimenting and research, found couple things that worked:

-the Profile can NOT be serious. (Profession: Professional Coffee Brewer)

-Silly subject line (“We’re robbing a bank need a driver”)

-Profile should show that I’m selective (“Must have a college degree”)

I think we should experiment and practice a few times before we get consistent results. We need to fail sometimes so we can adjust and find another way to do it right. I got some great ideas from researching online and Cajun’s stuff has been really helpful. He’s got some free chapters on online game: http://bit.ly/xG1Yej