This girl opened me online last night, so we exchanged a couple messages. I thought she was prude (based on her profile) but she kind of surprised me by making certain sexual innuendos.

Here's a break down of just the 'sexual' portion of our convo:

Me: You suck.
Her: It's really too early in the game to know if I suck or not...lol. (if ya know what I mean)

Me: Hmmm. Well I'm looking to fill up my birthday week (in early January) Perhaps a meetup is in order. Then we'll see what type of personality lies beneath that smile.
And Touche @ suck. I guess that's a good point. Although, you do seem pretty innocent. Which is another reason I was surprised to learn you were intrigued by a man such as myself. We're so different in that regard.

Her: Im not "innocent" really... But have to be honest and admit that past behavior has gotten me into bad situations. For that reason, I am more reserved and careful now.
So...newly prudish? Lol. So yea, you would most likely be the type of guy I shouldn't intend to have a long term relationship with...
My birthday is dec 27 so not too far from yours. I would not be opposed to meeting you during your birthday week .



Now, it seems pretty obvious, but I just want to make sure. Is she giving me the green light and suggesting we have a short-term fling?

note: There was some small talk in there too. But this is ONLY the SEXUAL part.

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Call her bluff, arrange a meeting time and place, make it happen. If she backs out there's your answer.

Ok well, I still can't tell. She agreed to meet up with me, but I can't tell if she's not into me sexually, or if she's just PRETENDING not to be.

We talked a lot, then she IM'd me. She talked about getting naked in front of me, but then said she'd stay warm by doing jumping jacks. (In other words, not by body heat) Next we talked about cooking and her being hungry:

Her: im not sure i trust your sandwiches
Her: lol
Her: you might put some fairy dust in it to make me want u or something
Me: lmao
Me: Hey, if you don't want me on your own, I wouldn't even WANNA have sex with you.
Her: ahhhh!!! lol
Me: lol, I just got your "eewwwww" message. You hate penis that bad? Wow! You're worse than I THOUGHT! lol
Her: lol... nah... just the thought of yours..
Her: ha! j/k

Then we said we'd talk/text tomorrow since she was going to sleep.

Is she teasing/flirting or is she just not interested?

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I speak about the things I know, and ask about the things I don't.

Who cares if she is or isn't, act like she is.

I'd have fucked with her a bit and go "Like I'd need fairy dust to make you want to have sex with me, please Woman."

Dude seriously,

Online chat is not the easiest place to amp the sexual tension, as mis interpretations of messages can be made easily ( Hence yourself).

Your best approach is to be persistent ( NOT NEEDY) about getting together and having fun.

Don't stress or concern yourself with the sexual innuendoes, Just assume she is into you no matter what.

Once you meet her, enjoy her by focusing on making her feel hot, and wet and turned on.. NOT about getting sex from her!

Be assertive and strong. I feel in your messages to her, that you seem you could break anytime..

Peace.

She want's sex plain and simple. It's right there in front of you. If anything is going to hinder you from getting the sex, it is your over analyzing. She just wants you to show more interest in her sexually.

The mixed signals are just for you to show more interest. Trust me on this, If sex has been a topic and meeting is a topic...It is implied. 100%

If you are seeking sex, play the game. I suggest you start to set it in motion, stop deflecting. Make it concrete.

She just wants you to take the bull by the horns.

The easiest way to make it happen is to create a fantasy of your meeting, something simple, but significant enough to visualize. Paint the picture, make it hot! unique. Tell her about it, be detailed. Give her a more then active roll, be specific.

The next conversation you have with her, tell her that you had a fantasy about your meeting. ( have one ready, one that you would actually like to happen) Tell her about it, be detailed and specific. Her reactions will indicate just how far she is willing to go, if she gets excited and intrigued. I would even go as far as say that during your fantasy, you actually pleased yourself with her in mind.( women love to know a man has fantasized about them)

If you don't want go that route, there is still another option. You need to escalate the sexual talk, the closer you get to meeting, the more escalation you need to do. But show desire for her. The more the better. Trust me, playing modest and shy is not the right move for an online encounter.

Seduce her mind and the rest will follow.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

alright, you piqued my interest there.

DO tell the difference between persistance and needy. I've always wondered what sets the two apart.

Less chat more action! shes keen on you.

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