i'm a guy that doesent really care what the 'right style' is.
i've always had my own, and i just worked on my strengths (day 2, rapport, banter)
ive been in a relationship the last year, so i've kind of surrounded myself in a cacoon of past acheivements.
but have always been lazy in analysing and improving on my sticking points.

excuse my grammar/spelling, pretty high at the moment..

some background.. we're both asian. met her at some 21st. went straight up to her and started macking. know her friends well and displayed high social value.
the finance references is because im a broker, and found out she traded stocks too.


added her, then facebook posted on her wall.

me: heya
i added you so i could sell you a [some financial product/call back humor] haha
help a brother out with his sales targets


her: hahahahaaha, im with [my companies rival]

just kidddddding lol

me: step into my office and im sure we can work out a better rate.
(i may or may not have lied about having an office)

=moved to facebook PM for something more private=


me: nah but seriously, i didnt think women would get into anything as boring as stocks. i put myself to sleep sometimes.

lol is your dad forcing you to make him money chinese slave factory style?

Her: lol nah, im not reallly 'into it ' just tryna think about what some good investments are, and no, lol, i dont spennd my days watching the market hahaha.
lol i wish i was one of those super finance wizzzz'es
I'VE BEEN BLUDGING AND WATCHING ENTOURAGE ON MY BREAK LOL


me: im not sure if you've watched wall street, but i imagine you to be gordon gecko the cocaine blasting insider trader haha.

man finance is like heaven to those asian math nerds. i was the only asian that sucked at math... ever.

never seen entourage.. any good?


her: Lolololol I sucked at math too!! Badly aswell!, no I haven't seen wall street, but thats one enticing description hhaha. But yes entourage is good, lol it has too much guy humour sometimes but its still good! Lol

me: Haha hi5 for us to failing being Asian. I didn't do accounting just to rebel!

Do you watch hiym at all? That's where the shit is at haha


her:hhahahah i used to, but not anymore though!! lol , everyones always quoting everything from that show non stopp!

me: dudee! it only got better ahah. download season 3 or 4 and you'll be one of those people.

maaan, nightmare few days at work. i hate this damn industry haha. everyones just chasing the dollar.

so what else is there to you than cocaine snorting and share trading?



COME AT ME BROS

I think the exchange went great you talked about common subjects while throwing in some humor, and you controlled the convo very well. only downside you didn't build any sexual tension, only normal back and forth banter

my question is was this a im chat and she logged off after your reply, or was this over pm's over a few hours/days and how long since you last msg?

if this was an im chat and she got off, no worries she was probably just busy... wait a few days and start another im convo about something new and work towards escalating it sexually, then take it to text/phone

if it was through pm's, switch to im chat and push towards being more sexual, and get her number and move it to text/phone game


one thing is don't like her photos/status that will only make you look like every other douche hitting on her... keep it IM then text/phone then meet!!! you got this one in the bag

it was actually over like 2-3 days.
i get the impression she isn't online much.

why?
i sent the friend request, took her 3 days to accept.
normally i would assume she's not keen.
but right after, bam we got into this chat thread when she was on.

that last message was last night, not surprised if she hasn't been on.
tbh im not too bothered, if this doesen't work out i'll just find another party and talk more shit haha.

escelating sexual tension is something i'm not great with.
usually at this point i would find some stupid excuse to get her number and just start talking... but im tying things up with my current gf and would prefer not to cross until the lines actually been drawn and im not a 'cheater' if i do so.

i'm assuming escelating sexually ISN'T
"hey.. so what are you wearing".

but more like 'btw, nice minnie mouse costume. if i was 7 i definetly would have had a crush on you'

there you go she isn't online much so i won't worry about it, just wait till you see her online next chat her up just a few short msgs and tell her you gotta run and go for the number close.

Hint you missed a chance to escalate sexually by not watching entourage, every show Vince is banging some new girl. So when she talk about liking it, but not the guy humor you could have said "oh please don't lie you only watch it to see Vince and the guys hook up with random chicks you know you love it "