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Can someone tell me what is a pattern?
A language pattern, for those who are interested are words that lower the critical factor of the mind. Imagine, Just Pretend For A Moment, Because, As You..... You'll, The More.... The More, If You Could.
Everything really is a pattern, we have patterns of thought, they can be disrupted with a loud noise, an awkward observation, or a simple touch, leaving the critical mind open.
We have motor patterns, such as handshakes, standing up, putting a drink to the mouth, these things can be disrupted, and, just think about it, if you ever had someone grab a drink, or a somoke, or a candy bar from your hand, just how disoriented you are for a second before you react.
But, I'm guessing you're thinking of the NLP Language Patterns, which is the first list. Now, much is made of the stories from Speed Seduction and patterns like those, however, I assure you, you'll get far better with women if you read, The Structures of Magic Volume 1, Patterns of the Hypnotic Technique, and the Language Pattern Bible. You'll learn how to actively listen and communicate in a way that will intimately dissect the way her communications with you go.