ok this is my first post.. and i hope to be sucessful as well lol..ok im in Canada and i work @ futureshop.. and apparently when i got hired.. there was this HB7.5 that got hired @ the same time...this was about 2-3 weeks ago..i've waited like a couple weeks and we sorta exchanged glances and then i just started randomnly talking to her.. and she's my coworker btw too.. i found out she takes the same bus as I to go home and one day like last week we were talking and i smoothly closed her email address... the same night i talked to her and said and opened the conversation with
: "you forgot something woman"
Her: "what did I forget?"
Me: "apparently you forgot to give me your #" (which i didn't ask for before)
Her: "Oh ya! let me give it to you"

So that was an easy close for her # as well and then i told her
Me : "Now that i got your # im gonna harass you ever single day.. when your sleeping.. when your brushing your teeth.. when your @ school, when your taking a dump.. there's no escape!"
Her: (laughing) or w/e

now that was the easy part and i did indeed call her everyday lol around 11 and we end up speaking until around 3-4 every morning.. since im pretty good @ talking on the phone..k just this week i decided to meet her and watch a movie with her..(this is the bad part) i realized movies are shit for day two and we watched Bee movie (which i bitched about to her since its such a kids movie).. during movie i did some light kino.. and i think she's interested in me.. she smiles.. she pushes me..she laughs..i could also tell her pupils dilated as well..after we went to grab some pizza and was sorta lame after.. she didn't wanna eat so wth am i supposed to do (after that night i felt like shit)..

we both work in different departments at work.. me in computers.. her in movies/entertainment...and i want this woman to be my gf..i need some tips on some openers when i see her...or how can i create even more attractiveness if i don't see her or call her or something... that's what i heard.. like freezing her off for a bit..the days i physically see her @ work.. should i not call her or talk to her online the same day or should i wait a day or two.. and should one ask her out.. or should it be natural.. i haven't had a woman in about a year or two.. and i don't wanna fuck this shit up..also some kino tips would do good as well.....

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Ok, WHY did you feel like shit after that night? Have you talked to her since that night?

You've already set the tone for the dynamic between you two. It sounds like she likes spending time with you. Have you kissed her yet? If not, you should have already done that.

Basically, you have to make your intentions known and escalate the kino.

How many times have you two gone out?

ok man we haven't gone out after that but thing is after that i see her @ work the following two days later and this saturday too man.. she and i have work this saturday.. she's off tommorow..(friday) im working from 3..... and DAMN no i haven't kissed her as yet..... you see man.. i haven't had a GF for some time now.. i don't wanna fuck this up as yet....how must one make there intentions known.. and i don't wanna seem desperate either.... it was lame for these reasons...the movies place is isolated meaning no places to eat.. we went to get pizza.. and of al ideas my idiot self recommended us to go to chapters(book store) and they had no god damn seats for us to sit at.. so we waited like 5-8min and luckily i saw my buddie there so he gave us his table..and then we chatted there for a good 20-45 min.. btw she didn't wanna eat cause she wasn't hungry..so she watched me eat while talking and reading a magazine.. and after that we went to bus stop and waited for bus..(which would of been perfect oppourtunity for some Kino) but i felt so lame after and shit..because of the previous events..DAMN....i hope i didn't screw up though...i also think i have some one-itis LOL.. seriously..

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lol can anyone help me or no...don't wanna mess this up

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Ok, first of all, welcome to the forum nonexistent.

Now, yes, I do believe you have one-itis already. I understand that you haven't had a g/f in a while, but focusing on one girl isn't a good way to break the chain and get a g/f too quick, either.

Ok, with this girl, you do need to make your intentions known, first of all by kino. When you talk, make sure you come across as being interesting, not just blah blah blahing. Find a subject of interest, something in common. Make her laugh. Kino. Watch her body language. If she gives you the look of "I want you to kiss me", then do it. Have you set up another "date" yet? If not, then just invite her out with you somewhere to have some fun. If you have, then follow through with whatever you've set up.

Have you talked to her AT ALL since that night? Considering you've seen her since then.

Just don't throw yourself at her. Don't act like she is the only one you've got. That if you don't have her, you'll never have anything. DO NOT act like that. That's not attractive.

At this point, with this info, that's all I can say.

yeh sounds like you're getting one-itis.

I always try and kiss the girl Straight away when i meet her (after the MSN IOIs), "can I have a kiss then" if shes giving me eye contact and look a little scared lol normally works fine. If she isn't looking me in the eye and starts talking about stuff like what she's just been doing today etc, I take that as not interested.

If she says "yeh" then I just kiss her, easy as that.

If she gives just a peck lol I say "aww proper one?" and normally works, if not "oh later is it haha"

If she says "huh, what? " I just brush it off and say "oh yeh frends where we goin then, cinema which ways that, left, right?"
This is just my natural reaction, and deosn't cause any awkwardness. If anything, lowers her barrier, so when you next have a chance the old "can i ava kiss now then"

then either a "yeh" then a kiss or a "nope " in a jokey way. Which leads to a "ruuuuude " or "rejectioooooonnnnn " then I go back to the old normal blank face which shows I'm not fazed. then after this i wait until SHE mentions kissing, and then the "oh u wana kiss now then do ya" and go close to her, if its not a yes after this then put a gun to your head If a girls THAT much work then don't bother.

Don't worry too much about it. Practice sarging on other girls so you can gain confidence in your kino with her and also dhving yourself. You know who this is non-existent hehe lol. Top rock baby

Listen to Tripp. That cat knows what he's talking about.

Welcome to the forum alphabits.

Dude, this sounds like great advice, if only I knew what the hell you were talking about

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