Okay, so I met this hb8, possibly 9, at a friend's house last night and we hit it off. I negged, I opened, I found the common ground and made the connection of similar interests. I did all that. But after that we went to a party and it became each of us pushing the other and there wasn't much pulling either way, we were just arguing in friendly tones. But I know I had a ton of IoI's because she kept talking about leaving and she kept saying so she could talk to me, and then talked about how I didn't find her attention entertaining enough because I was talking to a friend playing beer bong. So I took that as another IoI (I feel I have more success if I just take everything as an IoI lol). To this i realize I probably should have tossed a neg about her being needy, but it didn't come. Moving on, the whole time after that was arguing about stuff and neither one of us could come out on top. Until finally when she was about to leave, I tried to #close and she told me to look up her myspace through my friend I had met her from, and that was my only option. I froze and just said "Okay, well we'll see what happens." Not the greatest line, but I'm new to this. So we possibly have a date tomorrow (or I should say later today) because she told me if I found her and emailed her then she would for sure hang out with me. Well that's already happened, because she's going back to school Sunday. So I could really use some help here guys for being able to come out on top and keep the arguing down. I know if I could k-close it would get us past or closer to past all that crap. Sorry this is so long, but I feel the more details I give you, the more you can give in return. Thanks.


-Cohath

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Cohath

Oh boy. This one sounds difficult. I advise evaluating where you are with her and then where you want to go. The Myspace thing was probably a shit test. Could have gone either way. I would almost expect her to flake tonight. If you do not get her to S1 at least tonight, toss her and move on.
Best of luck, man.

So the date ended at 615 this morning. It went well lol It was hard as hell, but it all went well. I posted it in the Lay Report, it was great. Shalom.

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Cohath