Tell her you just want to kiss it, engage in some mutual oral or something.

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she told me today that she had 1 year relationship before and the closest thing she ever got is fingering for by her ex. she said that since her ex didnt get laid in 1 year, (basically, she effectively made him a wanker for one year) and that im wont be laid any time soon (as in few months)

basicly she wants me to prove that im worthy, that i wont dump her after i get laid. how do i haste this process, how do i make her believe that i wont get rid off her without getting into the AFC mode. BTW, i really love this girl, i have one itis for her. but i havent show that yet. she knows im a bid of player.

I wish I had an easy answer for you bro.

But I don't. She's got the power of the puss, she knows it and intends to exercise it.

You could try pre-selection. Parading other girls around her, hoping to trip her envy/jealousy switch, etc... Or you could beg, plead, etc.. Sometimes it works if the girl likes you enough. Call it what you want.

You know the problem with one-itis and girls like this is it gives the girl all the power. And with young, especially hot girls they know it. They also know you're a young, and unproven commodity that's trying to get your pecker wet. In the end she'll probably give it up to married dude or something, on the side. Fearing that if her rep is tarnished inside her social circle it will hurt her long term chances (this the equivalent of DHV for a girl who still has her virginity or just wants everybody to think she does). I've seen this before, happens all the time.

Social programming + bad or inexperienced judgment = stupid result

Or in your case maybe a smart result. Yep, sounds like she's onto you alright.

I'd say play the field and keep this one in the proper perspective. If it happens and it's not a forced sort of a thing it will be her choice, not yours.

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wtf? What i said is that he cant easily dump a virgin after closing her.In what way is this relevant? ^

Anyway what ALPHA ASIAN needs in my opinion is heavy LMR techniques. If I were you I would build jealousy plotlines, use kino escalation, LMR techniques and in the end if that didnt work(which i doubt if u do it right) i would use NLP patterns

yea dude id say go with the whole jealousy and parading thing. that works so unbelievably well. and since u really like this girl and u got oneitis youre set. she wants you to prove your not just in it for the sex and its not hard when u really like sumone.

if you have other good looking female friends use them as pivots, it just makes her want you more. as bad as this sounds if u like her, sex shouldnt matter as much. i had and still have a bit of AA, started the game to meet ppl and if i get laid its all good but the ultimate goal is to meet sumone.

currently gaming a hb7 where the ultimate goal is a relationship. dont care about the physical aspects yet. of course i still set a deadline of 6 months before i say something. usually either get k-close or f-close in 2 weeks but for relationships i dont get sex for at least a month-2. guess im on a slow timeline but u should set your own deadline and not pressure her esp if its her first time. gluck bro.

Welcome to the forum kingafc11. Even if you're looking for a relationship you shouldn't have to wait for 2 months before getting any.

David D even says that woman have two tracks. A love and a provider. You get on the provider path and you're not likely to get sex right away. You get on the lover path and you get sex right away. But, you can start on the lover path and still get on the provider path too.

yea gotta work on that end up on the ljbf path alot too