I got caught!


So my HB knows I'm a "player"... and at first it was all good, we gave each other nick names (She's "fatty" and i'm "skinny minny"), and we even schedueld her coming over to my place for a tantric massage session.... lol but then she gave me LMR by saying "we can't proceed any further bc you have a girlfriend". Now I'm stuck! Do I wash, rinse repeat or what??? I'm so confused bc one minute we are planning to have sex, no when I text her shes all like aloof and shit. Like i JUST tested her and said "Evening, Fatty " and she responded with this dry ass "Hello there." Did I move too fast? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well if you are a player than you don't have a girlfriend and she's just another girl just like the HB you are talking about. If that's the case than I would tell her that and I wouldn't try to hide anything about your intentions with her. That's just me and it's worked for me. She might tell you to kick rocks.. Oh well

but if you do have a gf than that's just wrong

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Firstly you're not in LMR, LMR is when she's in bed with you but you said your just starting out so it's all good. You're still in comfort building and now you're moving into seduction.

question1: You have a gf? If so why are you trying to get this girl?

question2: Why would you invite her over for a tantric massage? That's way to much commitment. Invite her over for a movie and then while she's there offer to show her something in your room. Take her out of the room. Grab a coffee and then maybe offer a tantric massage. Ease the girl into it.

Basically give her some space and drop back down into A2/A3 for a lil while. Tell her maybe you both moved a little fast or just disqualify yourself in some way. Something light hearted and easy. Take all the pressure off. Go out have fun with her. Invite some friends out play some laser tag or something stupid.
And build some natural chemistry

Let me know how this turns out. http://puame.ca/phpBB3/index.php

The girlfriend thing is a bit bizarre, how come you didn't just deny it? But if you do have a girlfriend... why did you tell her? That's bound to be counterproductive!