whats wrong with masturbation?

It's a matter of your personality. If masturbation increases your sex drive then it's probably a good thing to do on the other hand if abstaining from masturbation increases your hornyness then that is probably what you should do. Having said that if you are one who's drive is increased by abstinence, as is the case with me, I find that you can go into overload after a few weeks. So whacking off every 2-3 weeks to keep yourself sane is a good idea.... That is if your not getting laid.

When I do not masturbate for about 4 days I am fucking aggressive. And I can get hard just by looking at a girl and talking to her. When I was dating my girlfriend before I had sex with her I didn't masturbate at all. It was about 45 days. Then she sucked my dick of. There was ton of it. 3 days without sex and masturbation and I will drop a load on a girl that can fucking drown her.

Sometimes I don't masturbate at all, for several weeks, and sometimes I masturbate 3-5 times a day.

I notice when I quit masturbating the first week is the toughest, later you are relaxed but still aggressive. I noticed I am better at picking chicks when I do not masturbate.

I put a pressure on myself, you ain't gonna masturbate until you fuck a girl, and that moves me.

That's so true. Like I said, It's been a week and I too get erect by looking (even talking) at the girl. I gotta admit, it WAS tough as fuck to not masturbate for the whole first week. Today was pretty well but was only the beginning. Somehow my balls did the talking to a group of girls in the morning for example. I can't wait to see what this week has for me.

it all depends on your situation



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You know, I think you should try to definitely stop doing yaself pleasure with your HANDy Candy. Try to prevent yaself, really, even if you don't have a sex. Remember if you masturbate you are losing your Testosterone and libido. And believe me, these can make you more energetic (and motivated) than any kind of energy drink.

For me there is only one answer.

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that is nonsense ..

you do not lose testosteron when you masturbate .. simulating sexual intercourse or simulating sexual impulses increase corstisol which is a stress-hormone.

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Okey I am gonna tell you something from my own experience, if you haven't noticed yourself. When you masturbate, you don't even realise that you lose a lot of what I written above (I've read a lot about it), moreover if u do it, it demotivates you and you feel tired, not mention smaller self esteem. Okey it's good to relieve yourself, but it is only a short term benefit. Nevertheless doing that for the longer period of time doesn't bring any goods.

I've definitely stopped over one month ago and I can tell you I feel different, like I said, I'm not tired I'm motivated, each day is a better day for me now.

Of course if you do it very rare, it might be okay, but after my case I am never going relapse.

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yes i have noticed the same thing... but that doesn't have anything to do with losing testosteron...

like i said before .. masturbating increases the amount of cortisol.. you also get feel good hormones but those don't last as long as cortisol...long term masturbating makes you more stressed from a physical perspective..

i also know guys who do jerk off alot and they are not affected like most people, i just noticed that masturbating is counter-productive for the majority of people including myself.

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I think if you go too long without ejaculation that it will decrease you testosterone, which is my only concern to not masturbating.

Which is WHY I have to and will have to go out and find women who can do the pleasuring than me pleasuring myself.

Just thought I'd share this:

I started my no mastrubation\porn challange 13 days ago and I've succeeded so far. But at day 10, I had sex with my girlfriend. I came over her. And how! I have never in my life seen so much sperm on a woman.

I had no idea I came so much (it was dark), and I came over her. At first she was horny for receiving all my sperm, but then she just started to laugh out loud in amazement at just how covered her ENTIRE body was in sperm. Both her whole arms, hands, stomach uptill her tits was drowned.

So if you want to come like a pornstar, don't mastrubate.

It was really tough during a few moments. It's like the road is smooth with a few major bumps on the road. Before getting the two full years there were a few failed attempts.

I would make it a week and cave. Then I would make it a month and cave. The month was one of the hardest hills to over come. Things went smoothly, and then after about 6 months the desires were the strongest and it felt nearly impossible not to continue, but I did.

After the 6 month test, the temptation or inclination to do it ceased to exist and from that point on it was easy. It was like my body got the idea.

It was weird man, it's like your desire for sex disappears, but you still feel energetic, competitive, etc.

At that point in time I could actually look at a naked woman and not get aroused.

Throughout this journey, my social skills developed far greater than they ever had, though I'm not entirely sure how the two correlate.

Hey, you should read Conquer Your Campus by Mark Redman.
I've just finished reading it and it's really helpful, especially for college

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