| So I'm new to this forum and this is my first post, I'm 17 . yadayada
I met this girl 2 weeks ago, at the parade we got separated from our mutual friends
pretty much got to know each other that way, leaving the parade to get some stuff for a party,
anyways there was never an awkward moment and I had her laughing the whole time.
I had gotten her number on our walk and made it clear that I was interested in her.
The next weekend I go to an open mic night at our high school that she is MCing, and to my avail there's a guy sitting next to her.
turns out they're on a date and leave together as soon as the shows over
The next day we see each other at a party
and I pretend like nothings different talk to her, tell her we should hang out informally,
3 days later i ask her out on a date and she tells me something
along the lines of
"Im kinda dating someone, I think you're really nice and really cool but I'd feel bad, and maybe if this doesn't work I'll let you know",
the next day i proceed to ask her to coffee,
she brings up the
"I'm kinda dating someone, i'd feel bad hanging out with you in not a group of friends"
I pretend like i wasn't asking her out again and say
" I can take a hint, i wasn't trying to ask you out,
but you were in the right to make things blatantly clear seeing as i really like you"
then the conversation goes back and forth as to me finding someone better and I finish the convo telling her "
let me know when you're single" and she ends it with "you'll hate me soon enough"
what i wanna know is pursue and win, or drop i.
leaning on dropping it already have another girl lined up,
but seeing as the christmas girl is girlfriend material and hot, I can see it being worth it
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