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| ovid27 | PostPosted: Sat Dec 17, 2011 7:52 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Dec 17, 2011 7:10 am Posts: 3 | | My first field raport.
Here's the scenario:
I'm in an underground bar, it is loud a rock concert. I sit on a tall chair, 2 meters from the stage. My posture is relaxed, laid on back like I own the room.
3 chicks came in front of and me started dancing, 2 of them once in a while brushed against me. They kept touching me like that the entire concert. I kept my cool but I was stuk. Wat was I supose to do? I have the looks, they definitely were in to me. But the music was to loud to have a conversation and they all had their backs on me, dancing like crazy.
Even if I could habe a conversation I dont know haw to open.
This isn't the first time this hapens to me. I know I have to do something but I'm simply stuk.
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| 0uch | PostPosted: Sat Dec 17, 2011 8:13 am | |
Joined: Sat Oct 02, 2010 8:36 pm Posts: 1253 | | Have fun when your out. Socialize with people. That way when you open, you already have that energy and projecting a good vibe with makes opening a breeze. Also, your AA just becomes non existence.
There is a reason why a lot of guys do "warm up" sets. It's to get them into a talkative mood. Substitute for "warm up" sets is to just be out with friends and have a good ass time regardless talking to women or not. Either will get you into a talkative mood.
Oh and what you were doing, RSD calls it the "cool man." Is basically you being a loner, not social at a bar, but thinking your super cool. All this is doing is lowering your value, and getting you in your head. This is like trying to run before you can walk .It will fuck your state up. And is true.
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| ovid27 | PostPosted: Sat Dec 17, 2011 1:49 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Dec 17, 2011 7:10 am Posts: 3 | | You are totaly right. I had a budy with me, having fun. I don't go at a concert alone. But as a noubie I need a canned material for this special case.
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| 0uch | PostPosted: Sun Dec 18, 2011 2:07 pm | |
Joined: Sat Oct 02, 2010 8:36 pm Posts: 1253 | | I don't use canned material, forget it all, LOL!
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