Met a 30 yr old girl at a winer mixer. Ran decent game. Number closed. Text game led to a first date. First date she shows up an hour late with a friend. Ran good game (attraction/comfort) after isolating her from her friend and friends bf. Couldn't kiss her...said that she needed to get to know me better. Got a second date with her at my place for dinner and wine (told her to bring wine and dessert). After hanging out a bit, she would not kiss but then she sprung this (everybody hold on to your seat) on me: "I think we should have sex to see if there's any chemistry." Whoa!. So we ended up doing the deed. Thought i fucked her well. Her past sex history: raped when she was 17, involved in group sex when she was in college, and her last bf of 5 yrs could only have sex with her while watching porn. Since that second date, she's flaked twice with the last being at the very last minute with a text: "Sorry...just got off work...long story...I think i'm gonna take it easy tonight." So any advice out there to turn this around into a MLTR or FB situation?

No offense, but from her sexual history, it sounds like she's got a few screws loose from her bad past. I would tread carefully my friend.

Because she's already flaked twice, I would move on. If you're up for it about 2-3 weeks later, start up a conversation with her and try it again. And if she flakes yet AGAIN, then you need to realize how she sees you in her eyes.

Thanks for the reply. I wouldn't ever consider this chick to be LTR material at all. I'm just wondering how I can convert her into a FB. It seems like the ball is in her court now since she's flaked twice already. I wanna know how I can tip the power/interest in my favor.

Good luck on that land mine. But..... Let see maybe flip it and make her work for you and you not giving it up easy. Make it seem like she was not so great and that she need to work for a second chance on the bed. Also you need to make her feel at ease in being with you. She has a past that sure sounds bad but it also put her in an emotional state. Chicks hate to say it love the emotional rollercoster.

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