Hi guys,

So over the past few weeks, I've number closed a couple of girls. For the first girl, I organized a day two (mini-golfing and outdoor stuff), got her back to my place and f-closed. Problem is now she wants a relationship and I can't get rid of her. She sends me messages every time about going together to different places. Now (since then) I've met up with about 3 different girls and kiss-closed, but I haven't escalated further because I don't know what to do after f-closing. Guys, how do you f-close girls while letting them know there are no strings attached?

learn how to moderate an set expectations explicitly or implicitly.

What I do after f-closes to girls I don't want to date regularly is plan a date a week out and say im busy for the next few days. I can usually moderate a chick over a few weeks before they accept that Im not going to be their boyfriend and keep humping me or bail.

This thread deserves more attention as this issue is weird for me as well. I don't want to get tons of unsolicited msgs from these girls

Thanks for your response Detox.
Guys! Come on, help us out here!! 117 reads and only 1 response?

Well i had the same situation after F-closing bout a year back,this girl was texting me frequently and talkin bout a relationship and stuff. I still wanted her to be a Friend with benifits(FWB). I used my studies as an excuse for not being able to keep a relationSHIP afloat.. Making it clear i wont be able to contribute much time to a relationship and she kinda understood. We fucked for months after that till i relocated.

Now before and after f-close i make it clear that my social status doesnt allow anything longterm (when i DHV) and they usually get it..
lol I told this one girl "I have a problem with staying faithful" She laughed it off,bt we still screwd knowing there was no expectations after that.

I dnt know if this will help to you but thats just how i roll.
Anyway goodluck dude, hope you get her of ya back but still keep her in ya bed lol

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