| Hey well it's obvious i'm new here, a friend told me about this place. My friends call me phil and i'm a junior in high school, I'm never a jerk unless you piss me off, i like to be strong and try to be a role model for everyone especially my friends because they mean a lot to me...guess i can't say much more than that haha.
And I guess i should go ahead and pose my problem to the world now... I recently met this girl and we haven't been friends long of course, I"ve known her maybe a month, i like her enough i would date her but really want to get to know her better as a friend. Only problem is she asked me if i had feelings for her about a week ago, and i couldn't lie to her, but i think i got the point across that i wanted to get to know her better etc. and basically enjoy her company and think she's a nice girl and what not.
What i thought was really cool of her when we met and the couple weeks afterwards she always hugged me when she saw me and when we departed one another, & ever since she asked me if i had feelings for her, everything has pretty much went down hill from no hugs, to barely talking. Also i've heard that this other guy has been talking to her for a while but she wont' date him, he and I get along good tho so that's not a problem, but since i've told her that she's been having a hard time making up her mind possibly.
Anyways, I think her friends have been a problem as well, this one girl she hangs out with has hated my guts ever since she know i existed basically LOL. SO what i need to know is exactly how can i get her to trust me if she won't talk to me barely anymore, and muchless how do i get to know her better and show her who i am before her image of me is shattered by her friend before our friendship even starts?
by the way, i know this was a bit long, so thanks to whoever took the time to read it =)
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