Hey there, I hope I am posting this question in the right section as I am new here.


When talking to girls of different nationalities should you never reference on her specific nationality?

Recently on talking to this girl through text she was telling me about her tattoos and many of them I picked up on as having Russian-Jewish themes.

so I said "so if I made any fiddler on the roof references, would you appreciate them?"


and shortly after I realize that whole play has to due with the Jews being treated like shit and moved out of Russia....so she could be offended...or if she has seen the play she could be flattered for their strength and perseverance.


What do you guys think?

I think you need to stop worrying about silly shit like this, you have bigger PUA fish to fry. If this is the kind of thing that messes with your mind can I assume your game is horrendous? As always...Let me know if I'm wrong

You're absolutely right. I'm new to all of this and I over think a lot of things I say and others say.

what would some of those bigger fish be?

1. Proper frame for attracting woman (non-supplicating)
2. approaching attractive woman everywhere you go
3. opening and continuation with canned and impromptu material
4. setting up dates
5. building attraction
6. closing

working all these skills through daygame, nightgame, internet game, and social circle game.

I will say I have had an epiphany really emphasizing to newbies to understand the non-supplication frame AND what Mystery calls "A2".I f you master just these two facets, your game will skyrocket, however this is very, very hard for non-naturals.

As a newbie your mission is to work on many woman and improve your skill set, read game/pua material, if you stick to worrying about ONE woman you will make very little progress.