How ya doing.

I never thought there was such a place like this, so i decided to get my name in that list of members just to see whats up.

I found this place trying to find ways to pick up my game... nothing PUA related. But I ran into a number of forum posts and topics that eventually led me here and I was like "damn, I must of missed the party cuz I haven't heard about this".

Wuz the gist? I prolly found what I was looking for. In a sense that is. See I'm not one to talk often. Back in the day I sat my lazy self down the couch playing video games day after day. S'all (its like saying sss-all or it's all) I could do since I wasn't allowed to do much.

I don't know much about communication, and I sure as hell don't know much about being a master PUA. I may have had a few girls here and there, I may have lost my V-card, but I do not have that one thing that I've been looking for all these years. The power to pull girls at will.

So how did I lose my v-card? I do things the way I usually do. Sit myself down an wait for something to happen. Sure enough things happened.

Recently, I just had to ask myself this after seen a good friend of mine pull some random girl at popeyes just like that. Why can't I have that power? Hell, why do I have to wait for things to happen? i wanna take this into my own hands and do somethin about it.

See, I have this problem of one-itis. My gf broke up with me and it screwed me up inside. My mind and my emotions were conflicting against my will to move on. Man, my girl was my life but ya know how it is. Things fall apart. I couldn't handle the depression. For me, the biggest remedy for that is to have all that mess replaced with something new and entertaining. So wuz up, it's time to spit some game and get a life with my own hands.

So, why am I here? I'm here because I'm that shy and quiet guy that don't know mess about the art of socialization. Thats me, but I'm steppin up to the plate because i know theres more for me out there. There must be something I'm missing and it's this something I want to experience. And for me that something is women. lots and LOTS of women. Sounds like fun dosen't it?

It's what ya do after all. I expect to lern from the best so I hope ya don't let me down.

I just want to know what it is I got to do, to
- pull girls at will
- keep a conversation going
- keep a conversation interesting
- be an interesting person

So, in advance I appreciate all the help so ya have my thanks... even at this very moment.

Peace
~John Q

BTW, i'm not 20 or older than 20 so don't think of me as some dude sitting on the computer playing WOW all day or some trash like that just cuz I said video games. I don't roll with that mess hahah.

welcome to the forum buddy, you definetly came to the right place, I'd say your first step is to pick up a book on the subject, perhaps the game or mystery method, so you can get a feel of how things work here. Then go out and get some field experience

so your not 20 or older then 20 so does that make you younger then 20?

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Stay cool,

Fire

If your looking to keep a conversation going, you ought to look up some social skills or human relations stuff. If you can keep the conversation going, then you can win the girl. I find it easier to get into a long conversation with the girl than going into routines with magic tricks you know? Most importantly, you got to be interesting and not sound like some boring long lecture.

appreciate it. ill work on those things.