ok, so i was out saturday night at a club and met this girl at the start of the night that was a friend of a friend, she was frickin hot but when I introduced myself I was pleasent but didnt really give her the time of day like every other guy. For the next 4 hours I was just hanging out with my other best mates that were at the same party we were just doing our usual thing being the life of the party having an awesome time approaching other girls in the club then when I was back at the bar and she was suddenly right next to me so I turn to her and start talking about whatever, everything is cruising for the next half hr, I was thinking in the back of my head that me and my friends might be leaving soon so I ask her 'are you single at the mo', she says 'yes' I say, can I have your number so we can organise a meet up next week' sweet, so i get her number, then suddenly all her gf's want to go dance so im like 'sweet, ill get out there too' were grinding away having a mad time then I kiss her and were making out for the next hr, shes pushing into me hard rubbing me etc.. we go back to the bar as a group then when we get there were making out for a bit longer and she says 'I kind of need to tell you something - Im kind of seeing someone but it's not serious' my friends and I were about to leave and I was like 'look, i think your cool and we should meet up next week but I wont be 2nd to anyone, ill give you a ring during the week, in the meantime you can think about what you wanna do'.... OK in my head now im telling myself 'this situation is a clear indicator that this girl isnt down to take it further with me' but she was so sexual out on the dance floor it was ridiculous, this girl is at least a 9 so I was just after some advice on how I should play it, I havent called or txted since I met her 2 days ago

Man learn to use paragraphs,

Her saying this to you does not necessarily mean shes not into you, you did the right thing by being so direct with her, I would continue to call her whenever and see what comes out of it

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'Nothing is impossible to a willing mind'

Depends on if your willing to be a guy she cheats on another guy with. Because regardless of what she tells you next, you could be that guy, whether you know it or not - because anyone can lie.

I would also say continue to pursue and decide later. Don't go out of your way to bring it up, only address it if she does. Asking about it too much would be AFC, just be dominant - come up with a date - do it and make he yours man.

Cheers for the advice fellas, i'll let you know how it pans out

yeah, keep us updated, im curious of the outcome

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'Nothing is impossible to a willing mind'

Be the guy who leads her emotions regardless of her personal situation. Capture her interest/attention/lust for enough time and with enough potency she will probably care less about the other dude she is banging/with/married to et al, if only just for the time that she is with you. Remember other people's situations are their own business; and, only your concern if they make them so. (That last sentence is convoluted, but hopefully you catch my drift).

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Call me Sly.
My goal: To become a Pickup Artist in everything but name.

And yeah, This is (still) just the beginning.

lol yes. Paragraphs help us all read and please 3-5 sentences for online paragraphs