There's a girl (9/10) I bumped into quite a lot last year and she was always massively flirty towards me and I always gamed her as much as possible but never got further than some very amorous dances/conversations... but there was always the catch that she had a boyfriend.

Now, I bumped into her again the other day and using the whole "how does your boyfriend put up with you" line, found out she's now single and was throwing IOI's from every direction; due to circumstance... we were summoned by our friends. Anyway, I'm over explaining... she gave me her number and now I need some idea's on how to get to see her again, do I go straight for organising seeing her or bit of rapport building and gaming before?

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'Be who you are and say what you feel; because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind'

Schedule a meet-up! Why would you need to build rapport with a girl who's obviously already pretty comfortable with you? Game on!

So first text, suggest getting together? Or one or two flirty, funny texts?

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'Be who you are and say what you feel; because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind'

Now you're gettin' too technical. It's about what you feel. Figure out something you want to do (or perhaps you've already got some plans) and invite her to come along. It's easy enough to just say, "okay," if she says no, because you were already doing it whether she joined you or not.

The amount of flirty texts and things of that matter are of no importance. Just get out and do things with her. The rest of your game comes in when you're spending time with her. I personally hate using text to flirt with girls. You get no body language to read and it's much harder to steer a conversation in a positive direction this way. Generally, I reserve texting for making plans or if I'm not around to see her frequently, I'll just shoot her a text to let her know I'm alive and that I was thinking of her (not in those words, but you get the point).

I agree with some points with AznPersuasion

Its ALWAYS better to do stuff in person. Of course comfort is key; you ALWAYS need to build attraction and comfort , sometimes that requires conversation on the phone or texting before you go out. But this isnt the case for you....shes already clearly attracted and interested, unless there is some obstacle in the way (which there doesnt seem to be, especially now that the bf is out of the picture) texting is unnecessary.

Anything you do in text is wasted when it could be done in real life. If you ask her out early on , with enough attraction already built, then your intentions are clear. With that clear intention you can guide the date in whichever way you want....dont have to pussyfoot about it. On the date Kino escalate, seduce, etc.....you cant do that on the phone.

oh, and by the way, be fun and flirty when you do ask her out...dont be robotic about it. She will more than likely flirt back or whatever...dont let this go on for too long, keep it short, be in control, keep her wanting more