| This is a really playful, unique, easy and funny handshake routine.
Go in for the handshake. When I'm going in for the handshake, I'll simply tuck in my thumb, so that her hand just envelopes mine. Then, I give a really puzzled stare at the handshake, then her, and say something like "..what'r u doing?..have you..never shaken hands before..? ahahahh" with appropriate pauses and a smirk.
HB's are totally be tripped up for a second, then giggle and laugh and say something like 'wait! wait!' and try and defend themselves. it makes for a super funny, organic moment and a great laugh. I'm sure you're imagining all the negs you could pull after this...lots of room for each pua's creativity and style here. HB's have come up to me many times later and remembered specifically that.
Basic psychology says that when faced with a list, we're likely to remember the first, last and outlier items of any list. Example: Turkey, Chiken, Salami, Communist, ham, roast beef. Same principle: she'll meet a billion guys that night, week or month, but you'll be the outlier. the communist. hahah
NLP: there's a potential nlp aspect of this, where this moment of confusion will do whats called "breaking her out of her pattern." what that means at a very elementary level is she'll be confused and basically more suggestible during that time. If you know NLP, you'll know how to utilize this window. but im not about to write a post on that-im hungry.
HB 9's/10's: if I've already detected the hb is a huge bitch and is used to guys drooling all over her all the time, then I'll modify this opener so that instead of being really humorous (where
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