Yesterday I hooked up with a girl in a club,
usually club girls aint my style.
But this one was damn interesting and hot.

All goes well, never ran outta things to say.
She gives her number and tells me to text her because she liked me.

Next day she texts this:
Hey, I'm going to be honest I like you but I have a crush on someone else for a long time and I've finally got a date with him so it's better if we don't see eachother. And I don't want to keep you on the hook.

ME: Thanks for the honesty, I had a nice time with you, good luck

HER: Maybe we can see eachother later but not soon.

ME: Rather not, you just said you had the dignity to not do that, grtz


What the hell, she just said she's wasn't going to be nasty,
So the only thing I could answer was: rather not
The thing is really really liked her for some reason, so I didn't like saying that.

Do any of you guys think there's a chance to salvage anything, or if there was a better way to text back?
I would like to learn from shitty situations like this.
Also it could just be an excuse of her to diss me, but yesterday she seemed honest.

Thanks

There's a chance i might see her wednesday at an event, I don't wanna seem pushy or desperate to her, what do I do?

Carpe Diem…Seize the day! That’s what you should have done that night. I mean you said “Hook up” but I don’t know if we are on the same definition. It looks like you were able to number close but that’s it. Next time in a situation where you and a girl are hitting it off great always try to push the envelope. You had her interested and the conversation was great. If you were still trying to see “how far the rabbit hole goes” you could have been in her bedroom that night and the last thing she would have been thinking about was this other guy, and still if she did at least you would have salvaged a night with a woman you were very into.
Worst case, and I know that this is looked down upon, but settle with some sort of a loose friendship. She may have opened a gate to a lot of girls like herself. We tend to hang out with people we are alike. Nothing like having a solid pipeline.

-TA

but how do you deal with girls who say they like some1 else more then you?
freeze out?

thx accountant,

You are absolutely right,
unfortunately I'm the guy that only realises this the next day.
There were loads of signs that she wanted me, but it looks like it was a
one time opportunity with her, I should have gone for it.
It was almost rude of me not to :p since she wanted too (at that time at least)

For the friends thing to keep a pipeline open,
good idea, she was cool enough to just hang out with and she might have some similar friends.
I think I kinda shut that down with that last text I think :p
Also I'm kind of a terrible for those situations that's why I rather shut it down then let myself fall in that hole again. Pains me to not see her again but it i've learned I gotta keep abit self respect, else I'll fall even more.

Yes I know I'm emotional as fuck, that why I came to this forum
I can interest lots of women I've noticed but I definately gotta keep myself together and not fall too easily. It always goes nice untill I start thinking to much.
I gotta learn close way faster and not wait forever to do so.